"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't care about body (within reason)

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I noticed that since I stopped looking at porn, I stopped caring as much about a woman's body. Don't get me wrong, I don't like fatties or anything, but pretty much it's face that's make or break for me. If the girl is reasonably in shape (not anorexic/not overweight) and has a face I like, I'm game.

Sure, if a woman has a killer body, as a male my eyes are going to notice as she walks by. But it's not what keeps me up at night.

I tend to like women with natural cute faces, not "hot" faces. I'm wondering if anyone else is like this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I definitely have a similar perspective on it. I don't need a woman with a super dope body. It's more about their face and personality for me..

But at the same time, I can't date a girl with a flat ass lol.
 
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rhcp83 said:
I don't like fatties or anything reasonably in shape (not anorexic/not overweight)
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sounds to me like you do care about body. dont kid yourself. :rolleyes:

what you're saying is you are not after a flawless body. well umm, who the hell is? If we
were we'd never get laid.
 
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