"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't care about body (within reason)

rhcp83

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I noticed that since I stopped looking at porn, I stopped caring as much about a woman's body. Don't get me wrong, I don't like fatties or anything, but pretty much it's face that's make or break for me. If the girl is reasonably in shape (not anorexic/not overweight) and has a face I like, I'm game.

Sure, if a woman has a killer body, as a male my eyes are going to notice as she walks by. But it's not what keeps me up at night.

I tend to like women with natural cute faces, not "hot" faces. I'm wondering if anyone else is like this.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Alex DeLarge

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I definitely have a similar perspective on it. I don't need a woman with a super dope body. It's more about their face and personality for me..

But at the same time, I can't date a girl with a flat ass lol.
 

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rhcp83 said:
I don't like fatties or anything reasonably in shape (not anorexic/not overweight)
sounds to me like you do care about body. dont kid yourself. :rolleyes:

what you're saying is you are not after a flawless body. well umm, who the hell is? If we
were we'd never get laid.
 
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