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I dont believe all the running races deserve equal credit (sprints, marathons, ect)

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How can we worship a 100m sprinter when a marathon runner basically burns his own body for energy?

Dont get me wrong I understand the sprinter needs to focus hard to realize his full potential within few seconds but the marathon runner has to endure pain and suffering for hours till the end.

What do you think? I hope none of you misunderstood my point.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well actually it is, people think that simply running is enough.

edit: xenomorph why did you delete your comment? now it seems Im talking by myself...kinda like when you try to reason with your gf.
 
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Definitely prefer the sprinter, especially the long sprints (200 & 400). Extreme distance running isn’t healthy long term.
Also sprinters usually build a better overall body while long distance runners tend to get way too skinny yet the mental fortitude of the seconds is impressive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Also sprinters usually build a better overall body while long distance runners tend to get way too skinny yet the mental fortitude of the seconds is impressive.
Exactly. Agree on both. Those marathon winners do the damn thing in 2 hours. That’s 120 / 26 = 4.6 or about 4:40 per mile for 26 miles!

Thats just insane.

Also insane Wade Van Niekerk Dan 43.03 in 400. Subtract 0.5 (start) that’s 42.5/4 = FOUR 10.6 sec 100 meter sprints!

These runners are nutty.
 

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Exactly. Agree on both. Those marathon winners do the damn thing in 2 hours. That’s 120 / 26 = 4.6 or about 4:40 per mile for 26 miles!

Thats just insane.

Also insane Wade Van Niekerk Dan 43.03 in 400. Subtract 0.5 (start) that’s 42.5/4 = FOUR 10.6 sec 100 meter sprints!

These runners are nutty.
I'm impressed we are talking about races and we agree, even got a like out of you.

We finally found common ground in some topic.
 

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endurance athletes rarely get popped for steroids though lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well.. I don’t give a rats azz. I’m just here for the inevitable melt down
 

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Marathons are boring to watch and are only exciting in the last couple minutes, but only if more than one guy enters the stadium at the same time.

Sprints are much more exciting to watch, like a human horse race.

There's only one runner on the following list, Usain Bolt.


How can we worship a 100m sprinter when a marathon runner basically burns his own body for energy?
Value is in the eye of the spectator.

You're actually making a common economic mistake, that the primary reason for price is the input side, where value is primarily decided by what people are willing to pay.
 

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Marathons are boring to watch and are only exciting in the last couple minutes, but only if more than one guy enters the stadium at the same time.

Sprints are much more exciting to watch, like a human horse race.

There's only one runner on the following list, Usain Bolt.




Value is in the eye of the spectator.

You're actually making a common economic mistake, that the primary reason for price is the input side, where value is primarily decided by what people are willing to pay.
Thats exactly what my question was, how can be pay more (attention as currency in this case) for someone that suffers less.

I'm not denying the major value that is given to a sprinter, Im asking how is it possible given the alternatives that we do it.
 
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