You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lolbackbreaker said:2 well off CIA spys
Sounds like a perfect summer chick flick. Money? Yes please.backbreaker said:do you know how big of an egotistical ****y ***** you have to be to have the nads to write a fvcking movie about 2 well off CIA spys duking it out over a broad? this is like a woman's G spot right here. 2 very highly desierable men, 2 manly men who can have any women they want for the most part, fighting over "ME"
Sounds like the plot to Twilight.backbreaker said:do you know how big of an egotistical ****y ***** you have to be to have the nads to write a fvcking movie about 2 well off CIA spys duking it out over a broad? this is like a woman's G spot right here. 2 very highly desierable men, 2 manly men who can have any women they want for the most part, fighting over "ME"
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This movie is actually about a woman who is spinning plates. And why every man should spin plates as well. When a girl knows you can date someone else they step up their game much like the two chumps in this movie.backbreaker said:do you know how big of an egotistical ****y ***** you have to be to have the nads to write a fvcking movie about 2 well off CIA spys duking it out over a broad? this is like a woman's G spot right here. 2 very highly desierable men, 2 manly men who can have any women they want for the most part, fighting over "ME"
good god america. come on. I mean some resemeblence of realism
on the same token let me write a movie about 2 swimsuit models who have mutli million dollar contracts who happen to know each other and I'm laying the pipe to both of them and they found out.
rotfl and here is the kicker of the movie. they find out that she's a fvcking ***** are just, 100% okay with the **** like 'oh she's fvcking you, no biggie, let the best man win" . she' sjust that fvcking much of hot **** that they are going to put up with her fvcking another amn depite the fact they can walk into.. probably anywhere and draw looks from the best girls there.
the last movie i went to see like that when the rolves were reversed was a thin line between love and hate and martin lawerence damn near got killed when the girl found out that he was cheating on him.
Of course, we have boys who have contacts in the spy world. This forum continues to blow my mind.Social_Leper said:Indeed. A friend of mine is an Mi5 agent and although the salary is decent there is absolutely no prestige attached to the role because you can't tell anyone what you actually do. Blending into your environment is key.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Looks like your friend fvcking failed hardcore.Social_Leper said:Indeed. A friend of mine is an Mi5 agent and although the salary is decent there is absolutely no prestige attached to the role because you can't tell anyone what you actually do. Blending into your environment is key.