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I done f*cked up.

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So my boss has a 17 year old daughter...there's a long winded story...And I f*cked her. She's also doing a 28 year old helicopter piolet at the tourist center next to my job and, thorugh my sound brilliantly stupid advice, my 25 year old co-worker.

Now its not like I'm hard up for sex. I live in vegas and i pull chicks like it's a reflex, can't really say the same for the other two people doin this girl, but that's besides the point. The point main point is she's gone from zero to three guys in less then one and a half weeks...and she can't even go out on the town where i'm sure some one would abuct her...yet.

So im feelin bad situation, she's not very smart, she's freakin home schooled. She spends the bulk of the day with her family, but she's now a part time slut. Oh yeah my boss has a 22 year old who already has a 2 year old fathered by my bosses nephew, in name only but still.

Looking for escape routes now.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
Looking for escape routes now.
Okay. First you take the 15 south 'til you hit Barstow...

Lame attempt at humor aside, here's my question...Are you looking to escape from some guilt you're feeling or the other entanglements from your involvement with her?

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Originally posted by PRMoon
i pull chicks like it's a reflex
HAHA, I LOVE THAT!!
 

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I gotta say guilt is some where up in there, I'm only human after all and I really do know better then to get myself caught up in this.

But the main reason for espcaping from this situation is, i'm pretty sure this girl is going to be f*ucking A LOT of guys in the not to distant future, and i'm almost positive one of them is going to knock her up, yes she's really that dumb. I obviously used a condom but nobody wants to hear that when rounding up suspects for a paternity suit.

I need to get out in away that doesn't have her stupid *ss getting really upset and blabbing the whole thing about me to her father and having him promptly kill me. It's sticky but again I do not want to be involved in anyway in a paternity lawsuit soon, so i gotta get out quietly.

Remember her 22 year old already has a kid and they're really both that stupid so history will probably repeat itself here
 

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Is she hot?
Do you want to keep banging her?


Cause i don't get the problem.

1) SuperSlut is banging alot of guys
2) One of these guys will eventually knock her up
3) When this time comes, the list of probably perps will be a mile long

So why won't you be able to pull a Bill Clinton and deny it all?
Sure you guys hung out, but you never had sex with her.

If it does come down to a paternity test, you'll be in the clear anyways cause you were double bagging it. right?

Now if you're trying to let the ho' down easy, the best approach is just LJBF her. If she's that stuipd, i'm sure you'll be able to come up with something that work.


-iceH
 

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I'm not gonna lie, I would still like to f*ck this girl. Last Saturday she told me she was going to take this Thursday off so she could come to my house for a marathon.

Anyway I'm definately torn between my guilt, which hit me like an arrow, last night, and of course the wang, which i swear can not get enough.

I think I have to fight my instincts and let her go but before my co worker started gettin some from her, circa two days ago, she made this big seen beause he gave her the "I know you're sleeping with the 28 year old helicopter piolet" Speech. Then she told him she was crying because she thought she "ruined her chances with him"

So I'm way way past that point I nailed her, talked to her about me naling her again and she tells me she "loves me" just about every time i see her. So i need a way to let her down gently or she will do something stupid, like telling her dad or the piolet (he doesn't know i f*cked her) and one of them will definately kill me.

It's a weird quasai evil vegas type drama. I'm really looking for pointers on how to let her down easy. LJBF might work but i can probably trick her into not wanting to be with me anymore as well.
 

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This seems pretty ****ed up. Your doing a 17 YEAR OLD girl that is also doing 2 other guys you know-one a 28 year old guy. Sounds like a springer episode. Are you that hard up? I cant even imagine getting involved in something that bizarre. Good luck with that.
 

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I only did her twice... like it makes a difference, like i said i am definatley feeling very guilty about this whole thing which i suppose could be viewed as good.

No i'm not really hard up for p*ssy right now either which is what eeks out the few people i've told the situation to. I keep steady contact with enough girls and meet enough others out and about that i really don't need to be doing a 17 year old girl ... but did... twice.

Maybe it was a revenge thing. My boss, her father, did fire my roommate/best friend/principle wing man and very often meal ticket. That might of had something to do with it and yes this is starting to sound spingerish.
 

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Sorry no pics, though my co worker has hinted at wanting to make some "video" featuring her. I think he's a sick sick man and needs to be locked away.

You know what she's pretty hot and all but was it worth it looking back on it? Hell no! I don't need this kind of stress in my life. What makes matters worse is my Boss has a 25 year old daughter who is without child, currently in Medical school, and is much hotter then the 17 year old.

Since they don't know I've done their other daughter, they think i'm the best thing since sliced bread and hinted at hooking me up with the future doctor, now all that is in jepordy because, lets face it, I'm an idiot
 

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ok, from the sounds of things i don't think you can drop her cold. The Quasi-psycho could flip out and tell her dad or cry rape or something.

Something that has worked for me in the past is to go totally AFC on her. Call her every minute, buy her flowers and **** and generally become such a clingy, needy pain in the ass that she'll have to break up with YOU.

The danger is that this could backfire.

Option 2 is to slowly start pulling away from her. Limit the contact, phone call, limited seeing her etc and before you know it, the other guy will just slide in and you're off the hook.

-iceH
 

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I really can't avoid contact with her because she comes to my place of work everyday and spends between 4 to 8 hours there.

I've never called her and never will.

I'm thinking if I just start ignoring her she's gonna iquire as to why. But wheening her off may be the way to go.

As bad as this sounds I do hope my co-worker steps it up as i try to make my exit to get some of the heat off of me. He's not desperate but he ain't winning not titles either when it comes to the ladies. I really did encourage him to get with her and am pretty sure the whole secret relationship he's building with her becomes so complex that she won't have time to think about me.
 

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Maybe I misunderstood you...

Did you say that your boss' 22 year old daughter has a kid by her cousin?
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
...I need to get out in away that doesn't have her stupid *ss getting really upset and blabbing the whole thing about me to her father and having him promptly kill me...
jerk off like crazy right before she comes over, when she gets there and you can't get it up, tell her you're embarrassed and want to be alone. Repeat this as often as necessary. The break up will be her idea.
 

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Well i hope the puss is worth it. What does this teenie look like? Have a pic?
Ironic, first you chastise other people on other threads saying that posting pictures of girls is unethical and disrespectful, and now here you are requesting pictures. Grow up.


That aside, PR - I doubt very much that she's gone from 0 to 3 in less than 2 weeks... step back and look at things from a logical perspective. Perhaps she's added 3 more to her total tally in that time, but I can wholeheartedly guarantee you that they weren't her first... best of luck should you continue to see her.
 

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She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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Well, so much for the idea that the religious nut cases have about protecting their children from the evil world by home-schooling them! I love to hear this stuff!

You just need to stop, period. SHe is a mega slvt and will find somebody else. She already has two others, why would she care about you?

PRL, need your hor comment here!

Dietzcoi
 

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Porky - Your eyes aren't fooling you, I said that his 22 year old daughter has a childfathered by his nephew, making them cousins. I think its in name only but still.

Crank - this actually soulds like a good idea and would make me look pathetic in her eyes. I'll definately concider this idea.

Bishop - Yeah I'm figuring she's probably done this before cause 0 to 3 is a big step soooo im figuring she was lying, which wouldn't be un usual for her, about the poilet being her first. There is no chance of me pursuing a relationship with this girl because she's just to dumb and the whole family drama thing and the fact that she's 17.

dietzcoi - the whole point of this is I'm trying to get out of it without rustling too many leaves as the saying would go. There were no feelings involved, on my part anyway, and I could really care less if she cares about me. I just f*cked her is all.

Anyway thanks for your imput guys i got some perspective on the whole thing and I'm gonna employ some plan over the next few days. I'll let you know where the cards fell in another post.
 

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You were right about this being some freaky Vegas sex-vortex type stuff. (I mean what is it with this town.) That having been said, you are a local who's presented a possibly damaging image of Las Vegas and likewise violated the "What happens in Vegas..." mantra in an international forum. The Las Vegas tourism counsel has by now tracked your ISP and will be sending two guys with lead pipes to 'resolve' the situation. My advice to you, stay in doors and watch out for black cars with municipal plates.

That having been said, I figured you were feeling guilty and were looking to back out with the minimum of hassle, and I really don't think you need to resort to self-abuse to achieve that.

Lets face it, this chica has serious issues in the most banal, cliche sort of way. If you can't get it up for her (which is likely to be a first for someone so young) there's a strong likelihood that she'll take it as an affront to her sexuality, which at this point she's obviously using to prop up her self-esteem. Suspended emotional volatility will ensue which just might lead to the sort of scene where your cover gets blown.

That's the bad news. The good news is that I'm not terribly sure you need to do anything drastic. In a stable like hers one horse (stallion though you undoubtably are) should be easily enough replaced. Put yourself in the friend zone. Relate to her only in a platonic fashion. She's an emotional leech looking for someone to attach her self-respect to through constant affirmation. She needs validation and it looks like she'll take it where she can find it, the fact of who provides it is secondary. You, me or habib doesn't matter. You don't want to be that guy and props to you for realizing it. Pull away and let some other schmuck move in on that territory.

The only problem you might find is that some lingering emotional attachment might have formed already on her part threatening to resurface later. If this is the case, its all the more important that you sacrifice some other guy on the alter of her emotional void. Make sure whatever attachment she might think is there between you is either broken or not solid enough to lean on. Best of luck in life and love brother.

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