"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I do so well with girls I'm not interested in

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I mean really, really well. Perfectly. But only up to a point, because I'm not interested. When I'm actually interested, not much happens. Why is this? Should I just stop getting interested whatsoever?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gmillar

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Act like you aren't inerested. It sounds simple, it's tough in reality.
 

biketrials

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I have the same problem I can talk to pretty much any girl I am not interested in but if I am then I cannot talk to them. It is like some sort of boundary until I just get up so much nerve to just go and talk to them. My convo does not flow as much as it does when I am not interested.
 

kRisk

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Same here, same here, I find it way more difficult to stay calm and composed when talking to a girl i'm interested in.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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No you last 2 posters misunderstood him, he does not mean he finds it hard to talk to the girls, i know just what he means, its that they dont like him as much, its happened to me before. Its because you give way too much attention to them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kRisk

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I figured they weren't so interested because i might have lost composure, but you're right, and I've had it happen to me more than once.
Somewhere my game needs working on because I get dates left and right with girls i'm not really interested in, and then i get burnt by the ones I am interested in.
 

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Yeah i second that check mate kid. Giving too much attention can be a bad thing at first. It's better to give them just enough of your attention to get them interested, and then leave them wanting more. The more ways you can get the girl thinking about you, about being with you, the better.

I wouldn't advise to stop getting interested whatsoever, i'd advise asking yourself what is it that is different about the way you act around those you like/want and those you don't. Then you'll be better prepared.
 

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You're putting the pvssy on the pedestal.

You actually lack confidence, the "prize" mentality, with the girls you really want. With the mingers, you have the prize mentality so you don't give a crap.

Act like you're not interested.

I'd also suggest thinking less. You don't think with the mingers and it works. It'll work with attractive girls too.
 
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