"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I discovered a great opener today

iCatch

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i used it on at least 10 girls and got great reactions from all of them. it's not really some crazy opener or anything, just something i came with on the spot. some of you might have used this before idk but it worked for me 100% of the time. here it is.

when you catch a girl looking at you say this in a ****y/funny way:






































you checkin me out? :cool:

she'll smile and you're in. good day
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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randalll

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i used that about a month ago when a girl was blatently checking me out

i do know the girl, she's a friend, and was looking at me because i'd bought some new clothes, but i did get a good reaction from saying that

i dont think i'd use it on someone i'd never spoken to before though
 

Julian

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lol pretty good i could see this getting use
 

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sure

hey um how do i post my own questions and i don't think that would work on a lot of girls they'd just think you were a d-bag
 

MisterMcGee

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lol not if they're into you. I could've said this to a girl where I work who was getting her movie theatre ticket ripped and was obviously into me, but I let it slide. maybe next time I see her, no biggie.
dont be shy
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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guy412

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or maybe they wont be into you anymore

anyways really though how do i post a question? i got a good one that could help a lot of guys in my position
 

Julian

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guy412 said:
anyways really though how do i post a question? i got a good one that could help a lot of guys in my position

new thread top left son
 

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I used many like this before..
they do work but really it relies much more on your Kinesics than it does the actual line.

If you are cool, great posture.. even joke about it.. it will work.

I definitely used it in the Opposite way like Randall did..

I would amp it up the more I knew the girl.. but it does strictly work as an Alpha opening.. you just have to be aware of your Kinesics..
 

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It's practically the only opener I know. There's no way it can't work if you're good looking, unless she's an arrogant *****. In that case it doesn't really matter anyway.
 
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