tryin 2 play
Senior Don Juan
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Met this girl 1 week after she got out of a 4 yr relationship with a verbally and sometimes physically abusive boyfreind. Had first date 1 month later. Her IL was sky high... I was taking things slow, playing it right, but then she kept trying to hang out all the time, and we started to feel like a couple. She was scared to be my girlfreind because she thought her ex would try to fight me. Anyway, after 3 weeks of knowing her, she said i love you and wants to be my girlfreind. I knew it was too soon, but let it happen anyway.
Soon after, her mood changed completely. She started acting crazy. We would have small fights, and she would say she hated me and didnt really love me, next day she would apologize. This happened quite a few times. This whole time she was always saying "you don't really like me much, your too good for me etc..." Then she said that she feels like she "has to be with her ex, because of the crazy **** he said to her" He told her she wont go anywhere with out him, etc...and she really believes this idiot.
I keep seeing more signs she is still into him. Then she says she misses the way he treated her...tat he kissed the ground she walked on and worshipped her, something I dont do. She said part of her wants him back, but she doesnt even like him, just how he treated her. She started saying we jumped into this too soon and she had no time to breathe, I agreed. She wanted time to clear her head and get him out of her mind. She kept telling me I was too good for her. Eventually I said that she was right and I left.
I think I did the right thing. I treated her very good actually, but was not over the top because we had only known each other two months. I think I deserved better so i got out. But some people have told me that I didn't try hard enough, so I'm kind of having second thoughts. I just don't want this relationship to end because of me not trying, but I really don't think thats the case, as any normal girl would see that I liekd her.
In my opinion, she was just too screwed up from her ex, as she even said she was. She claims she doesnt love him, but still kind of wants him back for the baove stated reasons. This right there tells me she is f^cked! So I got out, and she kept contacting me. I told her do not call me again...so eventually she stopped.
Do you guys think this was the right thing? I feel silly even asking it, as i know i did the right thing, so maybe this is more to vent than anything else. Thanks guys! and sorry for the long post.
Soon after, her mood changed completely. She started acting crazy. We would have small fights, and she would say she hated me and didnt really love me, next day she would apologize. This happened quite a few times. This whole time she was always saying "you don't really like me much, your too good for me etc..." Then she said that she feels like she "has to be with her ex, because of the crazy **** he said to her" He told her she wont go anywhere with out him, etc...and she really believes this idiot.
I keep seeing more signs she is still into him. Then she says she misses the way he treated her...tat he kissed the ground she walked on and worshipped her, something I dont do. She said part of her wants him back, but she doesnt even like him, just how he treated her. She started saying we jumped into this too soon and she had no time to breathe, I agreed. She wanted time to clear her head and get him out of her mind. She kept telling me I was too good for her. Eventually I said that she was right and I left.
I think I did the right thing. I treated her very good actually, but was not over the top because we had only known each other two months. I think I deserved better so i got out. But some people have told me that I didn't try hard enough, so I'm kind of having second thoughts. I just don't want this relationship to end because of me not trying, but I really don't think thats the case, as any normal girl would see that I liekd her.
In my opinion, she was just too screwed up from her ex, as she even said she was. She claims she doesnt love him, but still kind of wants him back for the baove stated reasons. This right there tells me she is f^cked! So I got out, and she kept contacting me. I told her do not call me again...so eventually she stopped.
Do you guys think this was the right thing? I feel silly even asking it, as i know i did the right thing, so maybe this is more to vent than anything else. Thanks guys! and sorry for the long post.
