"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I did something today and now am having after thoughts

Piers Nivens

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I met a really pretty girl recently and got her number etc. good chemistry light kino. We have coffee planned this week and today I was at the mall with a few friends and I see her there shopping alone. She saw me and came over to say hi and after a few mins i told my friends ill see them later and went to hang out with the HB instead. We shopped then had ice cream from a small Haagen Daaz place inside the mall.

Was leaving my friends to be with her a bit too strong/showed too much interest or should I not worry about it? Were still doing the coffee btw
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Piers Nivens

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I just dont want her thinking i like her that much or value her that much that i left my friends behind for her. maybe im just overthinking haha. stupid afterthoughts.
 

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That was a shıtty move on your behalf towards your friends. You showed way too much interest and she has you. Cancel your date, you already had it, and redeem yourself towards your buddies.
 

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Haha. Who cares, you got a free date in.
Cancel coffee and skip straight to something more intimate if you like.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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