“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I did something today and now am having after thoughts

Piers Nivens

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I met a really pretty girl recently and got her number etc. good chemistry light kino. We have coffee planned this week and today I was at the mall with a few friends and I see her there shopping alone. She saw me and came over to say hi and after a few mins i told my friends ill see them later and went to hang out with the HB instead. We shopped then had ice cream from a small Haagen Daaz place inside the mall.

Was leaving my friends to be with her a bit too strong/showed too much interest or should I not worry about it? Were still doing the coffee btw
 

Piers Nivens

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I just dont want her thinking i like her that much or value her that much that i left my friends behind for her. maybe im just overthinking haha. stupid afterthoughts.
 

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That was a shıtty move on your behalf towards your friends. You showed way too much interest and she has you. Cancel your date, you already had it, and redeem yourself towards your buddies.
 

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Haha. Who cares, you got a free date in.
Cancel coffee and skip straight to something more intimate if you like.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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