"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I did something today and now am having after thoughts

Piers Nivens

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I met a really pretty girl recently and got her number etc. good chemistry light kino. We have coffee planned this week and today I was at the mall with a few friends and I see her there shopping alone. She saw me and came over to say hi and after a few mins i told my friends ill see them later and went to hang out with the HB instead. We shopped then had ice cream from a small Haagen Daaz place inside the mall.

Was leaving my friends to be with her a bit too strong/showed too much interest or should I not worry about it? Were still doing the coffee btw
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Piers Nivens

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I just dont want her thinking i like her that much or value her that much that i left my friends behind for her. maybe im just overthinking haha. stupid afterthoughts.
 

VladPatton

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That was a shıtty move on your behalf towards your friends. You showed way too much interest and she has you. Cancel your date, you already had it, and redeem yourself towards your buddies.
 

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Haha. Who cares, you got a free date in.
Cancel coffee and skip straight to something more intimate if you like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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