I Did It!!!

[KillingTime]

Ive been seeing this girl for a long time. She told me she liked me, then changed her mind, then flirting.... you know, lots of mixed signals. We had a long talk, she said she just wanted to stay friends, I just straight up told her Hell no, that ain't happening.. and I walked out. This is the first time i've ever done this and it's all thanks to the support i've gotten from you guys. I really liked her and do miss her but I also feel really accomplished, just one year ago I would have been begging her to go out with me like a little p*ssy.

 

[WaterTiger]

YOU ROCK!

 

[Move]

Nice Work!!
Its a great feeling huh! FREEDOM! True, it hurts and its perfectly normal to miss her but in the long run, its going to make you a stronger person.

This website is the ultimate centre for male empowerment. Empowerment for ourselves that is... keep reading the content - the stories and advice can help give you a boost when your feeling a little weak, but i believe one day, guys like us will be the ones posting wise advice from our positive experiences.

Psychology has a weird way of working - if you told her you didn't want her even as a friend then that means she cant have you... and we all know everyone wants what they cant have. I suspect you will be hearing from her, but at least now, you know what to do!

I think its great to hear stories like this. More power to us!

 

[Dirtheart]

Respect to you!!!

 

[fillme]

I did the same thing to a girl recently. And her reply was "you guys are all the same. i need someone diffrent in my life. why would you react? why can't we just be friends?" I was just wondering what would be the answer to these questions?!

Well, I not only stopped talking to her, I blocked her mail, deleted her cell number and disappeared from her life silently.

But those questions still linger on my mind!

 

[FratAndDiddy]

it really makes you feel good about yourself in the long run.
if more guys did that women would have to change their techniques.
way to go bro !

 

[SDBmania]

Originally posted by fillme
I did the same thing to a girl recently. And her reply was "you guys are all the same. i need someone diffrent in my life. why would you react? why can't we just be friends?" I was just wondering what would be the answer to these questions?!

Well, I not only stopped talking to her, I blocked her mail, deleted her cell number and disappeared from her life silently.

But those questions still linger on my mind!

You could reply in such a way that I heard from Dr. Phil:

"Well, I already have plenty of friends, what I need is a date!"

Or something to that effect. You can say that you can't be friends with her, because of the way you feel. If can't respect that then that's her problem.

 

[Hot Ice]

YEAH BABY!!!

This is the first step.
I'm proud of you.

Soon you are a great man among others with unlimited confidence and power!
There will be women all over you begging you to give some sweet lovin'

 

[KillingTime]

Yep, feels damn good. I do have a feeling I will be hearing from her again, she has one of those livejournal things online, I thought i'd check it out expecting to see a bunch of trash-talk about me and how guys are jerks.... nope, she's saying all this stuff about "im not sure if I can handle this" and how she needs me in her life etc... lol not that i'm a cruel person but that is so damn great, B/C I have been the one in that position so many times before, never again.

 

[runner10_13]

ah...sweet success...i bet it feels good