"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I did it!

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That's awesome! good job.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don Israel said:
Seems like you made it, despite very though odds, congrats!

BTW how many hours do you work per week for your business?

I wish to start my graphic arts biz as well, i'd like to have a preview of things to come...although i am aware that situations and schedules do differ from person to person based on their needs and goals.

Be prepared for very very late nights. Deadlines are called deadlines for a reason. You do what it takes to get the job done.

Not sure why this got moved to anything else, I posted it in the MM forum for a reason.
 

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That's an inspiration. I like to hear stories like that, it motivates me to work harder.
 

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Warrior74 said:
LOL. I did dash it off in a few seconds. Busy weekend and a house full of kids. Time to get in some work.

Like the old saying goes, No romance without finance. That being said, an old FB is sniffing back around. I guess I'll play with her in the meantime while I continue my work. Time to go shopping and get some new clothes this week!



I'm still working on my debt snowball. I'm fan of Dave Ramsey (http://www.daveramsey.com/). And I was doing it ass backwards.

His debt snowball consist of the following.

1. get caught up on all outstanding (past due) debts first.
2. save $1000 for an emergency fund (less if you are on a lower income such as myself, $500 in my case).
3. Make a zero sum budget, every penny accounted for and applied somewhere.
4. All extra money in your budget goes onto you lowest debt.
5. Pay off the lowest debt first.
6. Take the extra budget money + the cost of the lowest debt and apply it to the next lowest debt.
7. Continue until all debts are paid.

I started at step 3 -5. Until the fire, as I was getting by...so I had to step back to step one and do it right.

Now I'm back up to step 4 with a solid foundation behind me. In a couple of months I should have all of my debts except for my car and college loans sorted. Another 2 years on the car loan will sort that out and then a few years on the college loans if everything goes to plan and I'll be debt free.
I have my emergency fund in place and I'm on step six of my debt snowball. Paid off my lowest debts. Diving into my personal loans and the last of my credit cards now. $1800 left to pay on those, then its tackling my car loan.
 
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