belividere
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calm down
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I declaire, to the whole board about my situation!
- Thread starter Reed247
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Who would've thought....
....this is quite the anomaly. Do not blame yourself. You just thought that she was not a virgin because of how most people who dress and act like her aren't virgins. She was the exception.
You're going to have to talk this over with her later. Do not let on like you made a mistake, or she'll think she made a mistake. You opened yourselves up to each other as much as people can. That is true trust. Your relationship has evolved.
If it ends, it ends. You got what you wanted.
Do not regret what has been done. You have done nothing wrong.
....this is quite the anomaly. Do not blame yourself. You just thought that she was not a virgin because of how most people who dress and act like her aren't virgins. She was the exception.
You're going to have to talk this over with her later. Do not let on like you made a mistake, or she'll think she made a mistake. You opened yourselves up to each other as much as people can. That is true trust. Your relationship has evolved.
If it ends, it ends. You got what you wanted.
Do not regret what has been done. You have done nothing wrong.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Re: It's been done
Did she bleed???
If you couldn't get your finger in there then you knew she was a vitgin before you put it in? Or maybe she is abnomaly small.
So I guess you couldn't stop yourself?
This is good for you that she had high values, if you are serious about a LTR with her!!
Yes tell her you care for her and it was not just for sex but out of caring for her!!!
!GULP!!!! (the sound of PR_L swalllowing his spit)
Did she bleed???
If you couldn't get your finger in there then you knew she was a vitgin before you put it in? Or maybe she is abnomaly small.
So I guess you couldn't stop yourself?
This is good for you that she had high values, if you are serious about a LTR with her!!
Yes tell her you care for her and it was not just for sex but out of caring for her!!!
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Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
I made her drink a lot of wine...am I evil?
that was not part of the plan
your conscious is eating away at you for this
in my opinion when guys do this it is RAPE
but it's been 9 months!
does not justify it
DUDE GETTING HER DRUNK TO DO HER was not part of the plan
you strayed from the formula
I am seriously afraid of what it going to happen wihen she wakes up in the morning.!!!!!!
lol
he but she agreed to it...Will she accuse me of something I cna't say on this board???
Oh nO!
Help!
HAHAHAHA
she mentioned something about being in shame
lol that doesn't sound too consentual
How do I change her mind?
say " look if we are going to get married eventually what does it matter ? "
maybe that will calm her down
not that you would marry her unless she starts treating you better
WHICH SHE SHOULD SINCE YOU POPPED HER CHERRY
She is upset and went to sleep. I am scared now.
She said she can't see me again after this. I am not sure what to do
i hope for your conscious's sake all this wasn't going on WHILE you were having sex.... right Reed ?
anyways bro look on the bright side. you know the truth finally. And you save $400 per month now on hookers.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: PVSSY-EATER
“ yeah kid, i hope you read my post on The Truth: The End, not because I just want you to read it, but it will answer a lot about yourself buddy! “
that was not part of the plan
your conscious is eating away at you for this
in my opinion when guys do this it is RAPE
but it's been 9 months!
does not justify it
DUDE GETTING HER DRUNK TO DO HER was not part of the plan
you strayed from the formula
I am seriously afraid of what it going to happen wihen she wakes up in the morning.!!!!!!
lol
he but she agreed to it...Will she accuse me of something I cna't say on this board???
Oh nO!
Help!
HAHAHAHA
she mentioned something about being in shame
lol that doesn't sound too consentual
How do I change her mind?
say " look if we are going to get married eventually what does it matter ? "
maybe that will calm her down
not that you would marry her unless she starts treating you better
WHICH SHE SHOULD SINCE YOU POPPED HER CHERRY
She is upset and went to sleep. I am scared now.
She said she can't see me again after this. I am not sure what to do
i hope for your conscious's sake all this wasn't going on WHILE you were having sex.... right Reed ?
anyways bro look on the bright side. you know the truth finally. And you save $400 per month now on hookers.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: PVSSY-EATER
“ yeah kid, i hope you read my post on The Truth: The End, not because I just want you to read it, but it will answer a lot about yourself buddy! “
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
You may have been right!! Prophetic indeed if she now changes her character to that of a prostitute.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
WOW that is certainly a different spin on your story than before
this may come as a shock.... and i feel weird typing this...
she just may have been telling THE TRUTH
ok that took my about 3 minutes to type that line above
can a virgin wear slutty clothes YES
can you suck on a chicks tits and she is a virgin YES
so i am gunna give you my REVISED EDITION street pimp opinion :
i think she was a virgin. went to church. was a good girl.
UNTIL you accused her of being a prostitute
she is a christian and a virgin and you call her a prostitute
YOU MIND F*CKED HER HARD. YOU BROKE HER MENTALLY.
**NOW SHE HAS RADICAL CHANGE IN BEHAVIOUR PATTERN**
you silly silly boy
now she changes after you say this INTO
she talks to prostitutes. she dresses like a prostitute. she has money like a prostitute. she lies like a prostitute.
call this crazy but dude it is entirely possible
YOU TURNED HER INTO A PROSTITUTE
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Wait a minute, you said you were joking when you made the above post so technically you were not right!
Has Reed ruined her? Or is this a ploy? I don't know - the jury is still out on this!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
lol
i don't watch tv but if i did this is like a soap opera i would be hooked on
looking back at the FIRST HALF of my post with a sense of humour or post that i said i was joking if you will
in my experience i know a Croatian chick that was up in the clubs drinking and wearing mini skirts and still a virgin until she was 20. she had alot of self respect and her culture/mafia type family gave her the confidence to even tell people she was a virgin which is different because most chicks won't admit it. wh0res HATE virgins as it puts them on show so society has created a negative stigma in my country at least amoung teenage girls to loose their virginity quick or risk being called names at school. This Croatian chick simply did not give a f*ck what other people thought and she was very well respected by men in the clubs cause they all knew she was a virgin.
i also know a Serbian chick that was same as story above.
women like the one in the story above are one in a million
back to the tv show passions / bold and the beautiful . Reed's life
i am also interested to see if like what PR_L said this is a ploy
so i am going to give you another story about a chick who was BEST FRIENDS with the Croatian VIRGIN chick in the story above. this story is me sitting at a table in the Croatian chicks house with her and her friend who we'll call VIRGIN WH0RE.
so i am sitting there waiting to use the pay phone and the dude in the pay phone turns around and tips his hat like this *makes hat tip move* and who do you think that guy was ? Emelio Estafez the mighty duck man.....and i was like Emeliooooo...
sorry wrong story ( night at the roxbury )
so i am sitting at the table and i over hear VIRGIN WH0RE ( who has slept with 100 men ) telling Croatian Virgin about her latest fling. she told the guy she was a VIRGIN. been going out with him for 3 months. the guy spends $$$$$ on her because he thinks she is a virgin a diamond in the rough. so he sets it up at a nice hotel with candles and stuff to take her virginity. takes his time and tries to make this wh0re feel special. and i heard her say " i was thinking to myself just like come on hurry up and f*ck me ". but she never told him she was not a virgin. she was getting attention + $$$. HEAR ME DON JUANS.
so we'll see how this story pans out. difference between Reeds story and the one above is Reeds chick goes to church. God is a powerful enough influence for her to remain a virgin through clubs , mini skirts and speaking to his ex's who are prostitutes.
ok we wait for Reed's next episode
SAME BAT TIME, SAME BAT CHANNEL
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
i don't watch tv but if i did this is like a soap opera i would be hooked on
looking back at the FIRST HALF of my post with a sense of humour or post that i said i was joking if you will
in my experience i know a Croatian chick that was up in the clubs drinking and wearing mini skirts and still a virgin until she was 20. she had alot of self respect and her culture/mafia type family gave her the confidence to even tell people she was a virgin which is different because most chicks won't admit it. wh0res HATE virgins as it puts them on show so society has created a negative stigma in my country at least amoung teenage girls to loose their virginity quick or risk being called names at school. This Croatian chick simply did not give a f*ck what other people thought and she was very well respected by men in the clubs cause they all knew she was a virgin.
i also know a Serbian chick that was same as story above.
women like the one in the story above are one in a million
back to the tv show passions / bold and the beautiful . Reed's life
i am also interested to see if like what PR_L said this is a ploy
so i am going to give you another story about a chick who was BEST FRIENDS with the Croatian VIRGIN chick in the story above. this story is me sitting at a table in the Croatian chicks house with her and her friend who we'll call VIRGIN WH0RE.
so i am sitting there waiting to use the pay phone and the dude in the pay phone turns around and tips his hat like this *makes hat tip move* and who do you think that guy was ? Emelio Estafez the mighty duck man.....and i was like Emeliooooo...
sorry wrong story ( night at the roxbury )
so i am sitting at the table and i over hear VIRGIN WH0RE ( who has slept with 100 men ) telling Croatian Virgin about her latest fling. she told the guy she was a VIRGIN. been going out with him for 3 months. the guy spends $$$$$ on her because he thinks she is a virgin a diamond in the rough. so he sets it up at a nice hotel with candles and stuff to take her virginity. takes his time and tries to make this wh0re feel special. and i heard her say " i was thinking to myself just like come on hurry up and f*ck me ". but she never told him she was not a virgin. she was getting attention + $$$. HEAR ME DON JUANS.
so we'll see how this story pans out. difference between Reeds story and the one above is Reeds chick goes to church. God is a powerful enough influence for her to remain a virgin through clubs , mini skirts and speaking to his ex's who are prostitutes.
ok we wait for Reed's next episode
SAME BAT TIME, SAME BAT CHANNEL
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Rockadeimis
Don Juan
Too many games
She said she can't see me again after this. I am not sure what to do.
She's still playing games...and she won't let you live this one down. She'll always be upset that you banged her "first" (suuure) without being married, or will pressure you to get hitched.
ditch her...still playing games
She said she can't see me again after this. I am not sure what to do.
She's still playing games...and she won't let you live this one down. She'll always be upset that you banged her "first" (suuure) without being married, or will pressure you to get hitched.
ditch her...still playing games
TillTheEndOfTime
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Reed
Well....how much did she drink? Normally for it to be considered along the lines of rape she must have had so much to drink that she couldn't objectively say 'no' or 'yes', or she just passed out which obviously isn't the case here. You didn't put drugs or something in her drink did you?
That takes one dimension out of the equation. Now did you physically or verbally (i.e, threaten her life) force her into it?
Unless you answered yes to any of the above points it is hardly rape.
You may have threatened her with ending the relationship, but this is not rape. It's emotional blackmail, but not rape. She still has a choice. You're just giving her an ultimatum.
She may have said she was "in shame". If it was truly her choice (you can truthfully answer 'no' to all the above), then she has no one to blame for being in shame but herself. If it was so shameful she should have taken her pride and left to not be in shame.
Assuming you're innocent, this is another case of a woman doing something she felt was wrong or regretted and then going around and blaming the man.
Well....how much did she drink? Normally for it to be considered along the lines of rape she must have had so much to drink that she couldn't objectively say 'no' or 'yes', or she just passed out which obviously isn't the case here. You didn't put drugs or something in her drink did you?
That takes one dimension out of the equation. Now did you physically or verbally (i.e, threaten her life) force her into it?
Unless you answered yes to any of the above points it is hardly rape.
You may have threatened her with ending the relationship, but this is not rape. It's emotional blackmail, but not rape. She still has a choice. You're just giving her an ultimatum.
She may have said she was "in shame". If it was truly her choice (you can truthfully answer 'no' to all the above), then she has no one to blame for being in shame but herself. If it was so shameful she should have taken her pride and left to not be in shame.
Assuming you're innocent, this is another case of a woman doing something she felt was wrong or regretted and then going around and blaming the man.
Dublinsfinest
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i think this is a troll
update
she slept overnight and everything seemed ok.
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
We just stayed in bed together half the day, talking.
Actually she had wine with me, and a few drinks, but she was not passed out, and asked if I had a condom before I tried. (which I used)...It was extremely tight in there like a virgin.
I have never felt puzzy this tight since my ex girlfriend from when I was 17, and she was a real virgin.
But It wasn't rape, she agreed to it!
I just cuddled with her throughout the morning to make her feel better.
Helped her go through the withdrawl.
We ate lunch and off she went.
Well mission accomplished at least.
It's been done.
I have to say thanks to SOSUAVE.COM because I bet it wouldn't of happened if people didn't encourage me to do this, I would have listened ot her objections and let her go home, instead I took charge like a man, strongly took charge and had sex with her.
This is probably the best puzzy I have ever had.
Anyways, we will see the outcome later.
she slept overnight and everything seemed ok.
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
We just stayed in bed together half the day, talking.
Actually she had wine with me, and a few drinks, but she was not passed out, and asked if I had a condom before I tried. (which I used)...It was extremely tight in there like a virgin.
I have never felt puzzy this tight since my ex girlfriend from when I was 17, and she was a real virgin.
But It wasn't rape, she agreed to it!
I just cuddled with her throughout the morning to make her feel better.
Helped her go through the withdrawl.
We ate lunch and off she went.
Well mission accomplished at least.
It's been done.
I have to say thanks to SOSUAVE.COM because I bet it wouldn't of happened if people didn't encourage me to do this, I would have listened ot her objections and let her go home, instead I took charge like a man, strongly took charge and had sex with her.
This is probably the best puzzy I have ever had.
Anyways, we will see the outcome later.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I noticed that you have seemed to be tamed by the vagina! You were screaming mad before last night and now you seem pacified and pleasant.
Did she bleed???? Answer this.
I don't know dude - this is fishy!!!
Virgins don't stay over the house of other dudes and have "sleep overs" - I thought she lived with her family???
Won't they be wondering where her little virgin girl is and what she is doing???
Did she bleed???? Answer this.
I don't know dude - this is fishy!!!
Virgins don't stay over the house of other dudes and have "sleep overs" - I thought she lived with her family???
Won't they be wondering where her little virgin girl is and what she is doing???
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
A nine month build up eh? I can't see myself doing it Reed. Maybe if i had another girl on the side or I went out a lot and had tons of female contact while dating, but a 9 month relationship and now you've only had sex with her once?! I won't even entertain the idea of song and dance with a girl outside of two months if I can't spot sex on the horizon (and it'd better be a damned close horizon at that).
I guess a victory is a victory but from this post and all the other post I've seen you make about this girl, I can't say I think your efforts or time were well spent at all. I dated a Korean girl, she was catholic and had sex exactly one time before in her life with her ex boyfriend who she dated for like 5 years and yet i still managed to bed her inside a month. I didn't play any stupid games nor did I put up with all that much drama crap that she tried to put on me.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy you bagged her after all this time but I mean 9 months?! How many other girls could/did you pass on that might have been more quality and less trouble during such a long period of time? Just seems to me like you could have done better with your finite time my friend.
I guess a victory is a victory but from this post and all the other post I've seen you make about this girl, I can't say I think your efforts or time were well spent at all. I dated a Korean girl, she was catholic and had sex exactly one time before in her life with her ex boyfriend who she dated for like 5 years and yet i still managed to bed her inside a month. I didn't play any stupid games nor did I put up with all that much drama crap that she tried to put on me.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy you bagged her after all this time but I mean 9 months?! How many other girls could/did you pass on that might have been more quality and less trouble during such a long period of time? Just seems to me like you could have done better with your finite time my friend.
TedJustAdmitIt
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Bingo.
Either a troll with FAR too much time on his hands or a fuking nutter.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
He is not a troll!
Did you read his posts in the last few weeks? He has too much rage to be a troll!!! He was genuinely upset!
Did you read his posts in the last few weeks? He has too much rage to be a troll!!! He was genuinely upset!
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Quote - Reed247
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
Reed can you please go into this with some detail.
i don't understand. she was pretending she didn't sleep with you when she woke up ?
she was playing games ? just if one of PR_L's theories is correct this may be a clue.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
Reed can you please go into this with some detail.
i don't understand. she was pretending she didn't sleep with you when she woke up ?
she was playing games ? just if one of PR_L's theories is correct this may be a clue.
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Yeah, I stayed up last night just to wait for Reed's reply! I estimated that he would update us by 1am and I was right he replied just befor 1am.
But I couldn't go to sleep afterwards because of all the tense drama he was going through last night - I took him to be my child and was ready to bail him out of prison and get a lawyer if she claims rape.
I have to quit getting involved in the lives of you young guys - all this worry is starting to affect my health!
It was DJ Lost's idea to bring popcorn but he didn't want to foot the bill for all of the Don Juans around the world - it can be expensive! The Australian Pimps references a movie in damn near all of his posts - he must be a movie buff!
LOST, Reed doesn't want to give details because this bird may flip and try to claim rape!!
I don't know about you guys but I'm buying advance tickets to "Is she a Christian Ho or Virgin Part 2", the drama continues!!!!
Reed, don't feel obligated to buy her things now - let's see how she acts in the upcoming weeks!!! What's up with her "I'm not going to see you again" reply?? Hmmmmm
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
But I couldn't go to sleep afterwards
you not popping pills i hope PR_L
Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
The Australian Pimps references a movie in damn near all of his posts - he must be a movie buff!
yes i like watching movies
Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
LOST, Reed doesn't want to give details because this bird may flip and try to claim rape!!
yeah but i am just curious about the one question in my post above. he actions when she awoke in the morning does not make sense to me.
*******my post******
Quote - Reed247
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
Reed can you please go into this with some detail.
i don't understand. she was pretending she didn't sleep with you when she woke up ?
she was playing games ? just if one of PR_L's theories is correct this may be a clue.
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Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
I don't know about you guys but I'm buying advance tickets to "Is she a Christian Ho or Virgin Part 2", the drama continues!!!!
HAHAHA you are a very funny guy PR_L
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
But I couldn't go to sleep afterwards
you not popping pills i hope PR_L
Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
The Australian Pimps references a movie in damn near all of his posts - he must be a movie buff!
yes i like watching movies
Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
LOST, Reed doesn't want to give details because this bird may flip and try to claim rape!!
yeah but i am just curious about the one question in my post above. he actions when she awoke in the morning does not make sense to me.
*******my post******
Quote - Reed247
When she woke up she acted like she didn't know what was going on...(but she was naked)
Reed can you please go into this with some detail.
i don't understand. she was pretending she didn't sleep with you when she woke up ?
she was playing games ? just if one of PR_L's theories is correct this may be a clue.
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Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
I don't know about you guys but I'm buying advance tickets to "Is she a Christian Ho or Virgin Part 2", the drama continues!!!!
HAHAHA you are a very funny guy PR_L
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
..oookay.
Reed, I have to agree with PRMoon. 9 months is a long, long time. The girl I'm seeing now is a virgin until marriage type as well, and I'm only still with her because she's down to earth and because this relationship we have isn't going to last more than 3 months total. Hopefully you can turn your girl into a nympho or something, but it really seems like she's an attention wh0re who is going to use sex as a weapon.
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It was dark, I didn't see blood.
She was tight enough to not be a ho though.
She felt like a virgin because I really knew this girl was a virgin I dated before and she was so tight like this.
The only thing that bothers me she says she was to drunk, and didn't remember what happened.
That annoys me a little.
But I think she is seriously feeling ashamed of it.
I just talked to her on the phone tonight anyway.
We talked a half an hour. She sounded fine, like she is going to still see me and nothing is wrong.
BTW she logged onto my laptop to show me pics of her family in her online album...she wouldn't let me see the rest, but when she left I logged back into the website...I wish I had a key logger so I could remember her password for hotmail...that would be a tool...
but anyways I looked throught the whole album and it was just her and her korean friends (100 pages of photos)....i saw her with her ex boyfriend....and then some pictures of animals and jesus, and a cross. So that proves the christianity thing is real.
I guess I need to encourage her that it's ok...and she didn't do anything wrong. But really she agreed to the sex, I didn't force her, I was aggressive but this is a 2 way street..and she asked that I use a condom..which is in no way rape!
TO PR...she lives alone..her parents are in korea.
TO MOON
I use massage parlors when lacking sexual gratification. Asian massage parlors...they cost 200 a pop for a good looking girl. The girls are hot but definitely big time skanks...but I wanted an honest, clean, pretty girlfriend like her that is why I put up with it for 9 months...plus she is fun to be with...who wouldn;t want the company of a gorgeous girl..even if shes just making out with you...it's hard to let go of that attention...
And yes..she seems to want to forget we had sex.
I don't know why...again..she is probably ashamed and embarrassed...
It was dark, I didn't see blood.
She was tight enough to not be a ho though.
She felt like a virgin because I really knew this girl was a virgin I dated before and she was so tight like this.
The only thing that bothers me she says she was to drunk, and didn't remember what happened.
That annoys me a little.
But I think she is seriously feeling ashamed of it.
I just talked to her on the phone tonight anyway.
We talked a half an hour. She sounded fine, like she is going to still see me and nothing is wrong.
BTW she logged onto my laptop to show me pics of her family in her online album...she wouldn't let me see the rest, but when she left I logged back into the website...I wish I had a key logger so I could remember her password for hotmail...that would be a tool...
but anyways I looked throught the whole album and it was just her and her korean friends (100 pages of photos)....i saw her with her ex boyfriend....and then some pictures of animals and jesus, and a cross. So that proves the christianity thing is real.
I guess I need to encourage her that it's ok...and she didn't do anything wrong. But really she agreed to the sex, I didn't force her, I was aggressive but this is a 2 way street..and she asked that I use a condom..which is in no way rape!
TO PR...she lives alone..her parents are in korea.
TO MOON
I use massage parlors when lacking sexual gratification. Asian massage parlors...they cost 200 a pop for a good looking girl. The girls are hot but definitely big time skanks...but I wanted an honest, clean, pretty girlfriend like her that is why I put up with it for 9 months...plus she is fun to be with...who wouldn;t want the company of a gorgeous girl..even if shes just making out with you...it's hard to let go of that attention...
And yes..she seems to want to forget we had sex.
I don't know why...again..she is probably ashamed and embarrassed...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.