"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I dated a girl who's got a BF but I didn't know....now what?

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OK i asked the phone numer from this girl in class and i asked her out. I did tell her that she is very cute and blah blah, and i offered her to dinner and movies. We had fun in the date and she asked a lot about me. One thing I just didn't get it was that she seemed very anxious about something.

I thought the date went well but today I tried to call her but my call gets blocked by her cellular phone. I am sure about it coz my own cellular phone's got the same function. Anyway I was like~ what the fvck??? and talked about this to my friend, he checked this with other friends and they told him that she's got a boyfriend, a close boyfriend.

Well i didn't know that she's got a bf....
do you think she is interested in me and tying to find a replacement for her boyfriend? or she's just going out with me for a free meal and movies? what the fvck....
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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most likely she did enjoy the time, with her anxious reasons, its probably because she was getting nervous that her boyfriend might show up, call her. whatever. and probably had you blocked because she doesnt want her boyfriend question about who's number is this and why he keeps calling. i dont think it was a free meal ticket, i'm sure she likes you but dont wanna get caught. thats about it. just move to the next girl, she can spell trouble.
 
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The monkey is trying to grab the next branch, yet she can't let go of what she's grabbing on to right now; not just yet.
 
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Originally posted by Aztec
The monkey is trying to grab the next branch, yet she can't let go of what she's grabbing on to right now; not just yet.
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nice analogy... :D
 
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