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I couldn't go clubbing!

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So I ran into this chick last night at work, she opened me, kino'd me and asked me to meet her tonight. Now for a really stupid reason, I couldn't make it to the club. I offered to take her number last night so I could prevent this. Now I can't contact her and she'll be wondering why I wasn't in the club.

How do you think it will effect my image?

I may be overly investing in this girl, but she was doing all the work, and it was just so magnificent to experience, plus she looks really good.

I think she'll still be trying to do all the work next time I see her. I'm just going to have to act as non-needy as possible. I didn't make any crazy impressions yesterday, I was grumpy, so she seems to be digging the non-needy vibe.

I actually ran into her at a bus stop once (months ago) and there was a ****load of chemistry but I only got to talk to her for 2 minutes before a bus mix-up. I think she got off a bus to talk to me and then I got on the bus. That's why she remembered me and why she opened me yesterday at work.

I guess I will have to really play it cool next time I see her. My natural instinct would be to give her some excuse why I couldn't make it, but I don't need to be qualifying myself to her anyway.

What I need to keep in mind is the high value guy she perceives me to be! And which i aim to be!
 

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I like that you worked out your problem within the confines of one post. I think you're doing exactly what you have to.
 
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FairShake said:
I like that you worked out your problem within the confines of one post. I think you're doing exactly what you have to.
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thanks. I'm glad to hear it.

I guess I'll tell her I chilled out instead of going out because of my shoulder injury. She'll have to respect that. I suppose I'm pretty much solid/golden for the next time I see her, if she doesn't suddenly get swooped up by another guy or start to act all hard-to-get, like some unpredictable BPD.

As long as I play it cool I'll be fine.
 
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