"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I couldn't go clubbing!

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So I ran into this chick last night at work, she opened me, kino'd me and asked me to meet her tonight. Now for a really stupid reason, I couldn't make it to the club. I offered to take her number last night so I could prevent this. Now I can't contact her and she'll be wondering why I wasn't in the club.

How do you think it will effect my image?

I may be overly investing in this girl, but she was doing all the work, and it was just so magnificent to experience, plus she looks really good.

I think she'll still be trying to do all the work next time I see her. I'm just going to have to act as non-needy as possible. I didn't make any crazy impressions yesterday, I was grumpy, so she seems to be digging the non-needy vibe.

I actually ran into her at a bus stop once (months ago) and there was a ****load of chemistry but I only got to talk to her for 2 minutes before a bus mix-up. I think she got off a bus to talk to me and then I got on the bus. That's why she remembered me and why she opened me yesterday at work.

I guess I will have to really play it cool next time I see her. My natural instinct would be to give her some excuse why I couldn't make it, but I don't need to be qualifying myself to her anyway.

What I need to keep in mind is the high value guy she perceives me to be! And which i aim to be!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I like that you worked out your problem within the confines of one post. I think you're doing exactly what you have to.
 
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FairShake said:
I like that you worked out your problem within the confines of one post. I think you're doing exactly what you have to.
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thanks. I'm glad to hear it.

I guess I'll tell her I chilled out instead of going out because of my shoulder injury. She'll have to respect that. I suppose I'm pretty much solid/golden for the next time I see her, if she doesn't suddenly get swooped up by another guy or start to act all hard-to-get, like some unpredictable BPD.

As long as I play it cool I'll be fine.
 
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