"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I could really use some advice on life, and getting off rock bottom..

The Karate Kid

Don Juan
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Yeah, Ive been training for about 5 years, but i have had some gaps in there unfortunately due to a few different reasons.

I appreciate all the advice ive gotten on here. I know i probably sounded a bit dramatic. In actuality, I do have plenty going for me, and i am actually great with women(with the lone exception). I guess i have to stop thinking about the what ifs, and the mistakes i have made.

And in regards to the girl i spoke of, Im not surprised that she is staying away until i get my mind right, With the way i have acted, im shocked she put up with it. The sad part is that i knew every single thing i was doing wrong, but emotions have a funny way of making you forget logic, and what works. Maybe someday her and I can be cool again. Oh well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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