But I honestly have no interest in doing it. I do love the chase (there's no better rush than meeting a bangin' girl that likes you) and the first dates, but in the end, I just want someone I connect with deeply and can ****. Maybe I just need to get my heart broken more, but it seriously makes no sense when I see my player friend keep ditching girls after ****ing them several times.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i could most likely "spin plates"
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