"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i could most likely "spin plates"

blueline

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But I honestly have no interest in doing it. I do love the chase (there's no better rush than meeting a bangin' girl that likes you) and the first dates, but in the end, I just want someone I connect with deeply and can ****. Maybe I just need to get my heart broken more, but it seriously makes no sense when I see my player friend keep ditching girls after ****ing them several times.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good for you. And we all care about this because?
 

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I'm wondering if anyone shares any similar sentiments. I can see WHY spinning plates could be helpful if you want to control the oneitis, but it's so much freaking work.
 

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You need to spin plates for your own protection, in my opinion. If things go bad with your current girl, having a back up girl will make it hurt less. If girl A fails the kiss test, you can always say, "Oh, well,..at least I still have girl B."
 
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