"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I commented that I'm starving and the girl immediately responded "I've got class right now"

Who Dares Win

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The simple fact that you are confused and asking advices here means its a red flag.

An interested girl would never do or say anything that could confuse or turn off someone she likes, she wouldnt run the risk to piss him off or lose him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The simple fact that you are confused and asking advices here means its a red flag.

An interested girl would never do or say anything that could confuse or turn off someone she likes, she wouldnt run the risk to piss him off or lose him.
I generally agree with that (and this girl is a lost cause so I'm moving on) but i think the flaw in that theory is that it assumes that the woman you're dating is a mastermind with flawless social skills

Considering how few guys that describes i find it hard to imagine that there are no women that say and do stupid self defeating stuff lol.
 
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