Gold Heart
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^^ LMAO, what about advice for the BROKE people? 
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I cheated on my girlfriend
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lol..
Well I say just tell her what happened. If she stays its meant to be then. Ask her if there is anyway you can make it up to her. Tell her that you missed her so much that you tried to find someone like her, but failed miserably
Onece again if its meant to be its meant to be. Always expect the worst and you'll never end up terribly disappointed.
Well I say just tell her what happened. If she stays its meant to be then. Ask her if there is anyway you can make it up to her. Tell her that you missed her so much that you tried to find someone like her, but failed miserably
Onece again if its meant to be its meant to be. Always expect the worst and you'll never end up terribly disappointed.
Gold Heart
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My girlfriend is back. For some few reasons, my feelings are disappearing very rapidly. I also think her friends won't snitch, because I talked to them yesterday and I realized they had come to the party late and didn't see all the commotion I was causing! One of them even asked "Did you dance or did you chicken out?" And we all laughed, especially me
Thanks for all the advice fellas.
Thanks for all the advice fellas.
Ok, cheating on your girlfriend=NOT COOL
Never do that, that isn't don juanism... that's just playin. AND ANY OF YOU THAT THINK THAT BEING A DON JUAN IS ABOUT PLAYING AS MANY "B1TCHEZ" YOU CAN LAY YOUR HANDS ON CAN LEAVE THE BOARD NOW CUZ THAT IS STRAIT UP DISRESPECTFUL AND WE DON'T NEED YOU HERE.
I congratulate you on getting the girls... but you shoulda known when to draw the line dude.
SO not cool.
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i wasnt gonna say anything, but i gotta put my two cents in...i think its a horrible thing that your gonna get away with this without a scratch...its not fair for the girl, if you even had the slightest thought that you might hook up with other girls you shouldnt have made the commitment to her, or atleast respected her enough to break it off...and dont give me that crap about judging you...you judge a man by his actions, and how he takes (or doesnt take) responsibility for his actions....
Never do that, that isn't don juanism... that's just playin. AND ANY OF YOU THAT THINK THAT BEING A DON JUAN IS ABOUT PLAYING AS MANY "B1TCHEZ" YOU CAN LAY YOUR HANDS ON CAN LEAVE THE BOARD NOW CUZ THAT IS STRAIT UP DISRESPECTFUL AND WE DON'T NEED YOU HERE.
I congratulate you on getting the girls... but you shoulda known when to draw the line dude.
SO not cool.
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i wasnt gonna say anything, but i gotta put my two cents in...i think its a horrible thing that your gonna get away with this without a scratch...its not fair for the girl, if you even had the slightest thought that you might hook up with other girls you shouldnt have made the commitment to her, or atleast respected her enough to break it off...and dont give me that crap about judging you...you judge a man by his actions, and how he takes (or doesnt take) responsibility for his actions....
tracy Jaks
Don Juan
NO it doesnt all depend on the relationship,you cant go and get laid just because tgheres a chance your girl might have done the same thing,if you were going out for 10 months you couldnt really be al that bothered.Originally posted by WingS
it all depends on the relationship
she could be cheating on HIM while SHE is out of town...and anyway supposing they broke up then he would missed out on having got laid by two hot chicks...anyway what happened to "one-itis"
Were you drinking?
Anyone can lay a slut pal,but its not fair to play this chick for another 10 months you obviously dont care for her that much, just tell her your not interested anymore.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Seeing someone trying to justify cheating on their girlfriends is just mind-boggling to me.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
You've already made a mistake. Deal with it.
You have the chance to avoid another mistake, however, by TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. 10 months? The exclusiveness is implied. You f*cked up, the least you can do is take it like a man.
You have the chance to avoid another mistake, however, by TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS. 10 months? The exclusiveness is implied. You f*cked up, the least you can do is take it like a man.
wh01987
Master Don Juan
DONT TELL HER. I told my ex when i "cheated" on her becuase i knew she was going to find out anyway.. and yeah she dumped me a few days after i told her... So just try to act like nothing happend..
jmm854
Master Don Juan
Yes! Especially because relationships based on cheating and deceit always work out.
You f*cked another girl. If I were you I'd be questioning how much you care about her and how important your relationship really is.
OK bros lets get this **** cleared up.
first off there is no definition of what a DJ is or should be, its something different to everybody.
Personally, i go the man route. the self-secure, righteous dude, stand up kind of guy type.
Gold Heart, you sure as hell arent that. You could be, if you wanted to, but that doesnt appear to be the case, atleast not yet. Im assuming if you were with a girl for 10 months, you had an arrangement of exclusiveness. Apparently, you were too weak to actually stand up for your word. Thats your prob Gold Heart, you just arent a strong person, you make that known in multiple places in this thread. Cheating on your girlfriend, looking for excuses, looking for a way out of telling her. You just dont have strength or security, whats worse, is you dont feel bad about it, of if you do youre trying to cover it up.
Personally, id feel like one big ass dipsh1t if i cheated on my gf of 1yr, but i wouldnt do that, cause ive got character, and im not a weak little sh1t. I have principles and i stand up for them.
Now bro, you can change what you are, its not a hard process, you just have to want to be righteous.
If you dont think youre strong enough yet to keep a monogomous relationship, DONT GET IN ONE. Because you may not give a flying **** if you cheat on your girlfriend, but the little bastard you are you prolly hurt her pretty bad, and thats not friggin cool. You impeded upon her happiness and for that you are a ****. Your relationship is over because she will never be able to trust you again, but you still can change.
So implore you Gold Heart, Be a MAN, tell her, END the relationship because you are not the right person for her to be with because you just dont have the strength of character she needs(and if you want to change. you tell her that).
And those dumbasses saying "well what if shes cheating on him", if she cheated on him, he should have dumped her like a guy who respects himself and his principles would, not cheat on her to get back at her like some little b1tch.
alrighty then.
first off there is no definition of what a DJ is or should be, its something different to everybody.
Personally, i go the man route. the self-secure, righteous dude, stand up kind of guy type.
Gold Heart, you sure as hell arent that. You could be, if you wanted to, but that doesnt appear to be the case, atleast not yet. Im assuming if you were with a girl for 10 months, you had an arrangement of exclusiveness. Apparently, you were too weak to actually stand up for your word. Thats your prob Gold Heart, you just arent a strong person, you make that known in multiple places in this thread. Cheating on your girlfriend, looking for excuses, looking for a way out of telling her. You just dont have strength or security, whats worse, is you dont feel bad about it, of if you do youre trying to cover it up.
Personally, id feel like one big ass dipsh1t if i cheated on my gf of 1yr, but i wouldnt do that, cause ive got character, and im not a weak little sh1t. I have principles and i stand up for them.
Now bro, you can change what you are, its not a hard process, you just have to want to be righteous.
If you dont think youre strong enough yet to keep a monogomous relationship, DONT GET IN ONE. Because you may not give a flying **** if you cheat on your girlfriend, but the little bastard you are you prolly hurt her pretty bad, and thats not friggin cool. You impeded upon her happiness and for that you are a ****. Your relationship is over because she will never be able to trust you again, but you still can change.
So implore you Gold Heart, Be a MAN, tell her, END the relationship because you are not the right person for her to be with because you just dont have the strength of character she needs(and if you want to change. you tell her that).
And those dumbasses saying "well what if shes cheating on him", if she cheated on him, he should have dumped her like a guy who respects himself and his principles would, not cheat on her to get back at her like some little b1tch.
alrighty then.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
heteropedro
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HAHAHAHAHA thats so funny. I can picture him saying it and acting like nothings wrong, and then seeing her being devastated by the news.
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Originally posted by Dizzy
Shoot yourself, people like you are what makes america bad.
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Thanks man. I love you too."
Only 15 but witty than a mother****er! (Im not from America @Dizzy so Im allowed t osay that I guess lol)
Originally posted by Dizzy
Shoot yourself, people like you are what makes america bad.
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Thanks man. I love you too."
Only 15 but witty than a mother****er! (Im not from America @Dizzy so Im allowed t osay that I guess lol)
I would suggest you break up with her after you tell her what misunderstood said. Take it like a man but if she doesn't break up with you she must eather be whipped or not have much respect for herself. I would consider that a big red flag.
Misunderstood, very nice advice.
Misunderstood, very nice advice.
UltimateScoundrel
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Wow. Where do I start? Let's see..... First of all, if you're sorry about what you did, if you regret it, don't break up with her, at least try to get over this. No sense in punishing both of you more. Second of all, if she doesn't break up with you it might mean that she, gasp, cares for you a WHOLE LOT!!
No wait, I must be wrong, she probably doesn't have any respect for herself, after all forgiveness is a trait of the weak... if you ever say to yourself, "What that person did to me was wrong, but nobody is perfect, least of all myself, perhaps I can still love a person while hating their actions," you are a fairy-whipped fruit bag. My advice to you if you are a forgiving person, swallow a grenade sans pin.
PapaLongDong
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lmao dude, i havent went out w/ a single girl w/o cheating on her, nj
- Chris
- Chris
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i am not going to tell you what you did was right or wrong most everyone has or will cheat once and be cheated on once.
just remember all the little details because one day karma will come home to you. when it does, react as if you need to.
just remember all the little details because one day karma will come home to you. when it does, react as if you need to.
wh01987
Master Don Juan
ok I just cheated a few days ago on my new gf we been going out for 2 months and by telling her it brought us closer and i need to stop my bull**** but now the girl i cheated with wont leave me alone... I didnt mean to cheat though i was like hey wanna kiss for fun asa joke n she grabbed me and kissed me...
anyway so scratch what i said before tell your gf man..
anyway so scratch what i said before tell your gf man..
tracy Jaks
Don Juan
Your old enough to make a decision, you made one, you have to live that decision. tosser.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.