"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I cant tell if this girl likes me or not

Ringleader41

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This slut has me confused. First night I met her she was drunk and kept kissing and making out with me. Couldnt seal the deal because she got sick. She wanted to come over next day but I was tired. Third time I meet up with her she is touching me a lot like pinching my cheeks and moving her hands across my body. She kisses me both on cheek and mouth a lot. She has to go cause she has an early class but we make out during a whole song before she leaves. I know yall r thinking im a moron, but Im getting a vibe that this girl is a sloot. Im pretty sure if I was white I wouldnt have to go through this bs constantly with girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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VladPatton

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Ringleader41 said:
Im pretty sure if I was white I wouldnt have to go through this bs constantly with girls.

Sure you would, we all do, it's the zeitgeist.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sandow

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I'm sure you're fine with black girls, right? Just date black girls if white girls are too much of a problem. Also, I don't really see anything wrong. Do you just want to get laid? If you are, you said she's a slvt so it will definitely happen then.
 
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