"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I cant tell if this girl likes me or not

Ringleader41

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This slut has me confused. First night I met her she was drunk and kept kissing and making out with me. Couldnt seal the deal because she got sick. She wanted to come over next day but I was tired. Third time I meet up with her she is touching me a lot like pinching my cheeks and moving her hands across my body. She kisses me both on cheek and mouth a lot. She has to go cause she has an early class but we make out during a whole song before she leaves. I know yall r thinking im a moron, but Im getting a vibe that this girl is a sloot. Im pretty sure if I was white I wouldnt have to go through this bs constantly with girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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VladPatton

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Ringleader41 said:
Im pretty sure if I was white I wouldnt have to go through this bs constantly with girls.

Sure you would, we all do, it's the zeitgeist.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandow

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I'm sure you're fine with black girls, right? Just date black girls if white girls are too much of a problem. Also, I don't really see anything wrong. Do you just want to get laid? If you are, you said she's a slvt so it will definitely happen then.
 
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