"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I cant stop eating junk. Please help!

ThunderMaverick

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With my current job situation its really hard to invest money into foods that could make me healthier and help me lose weight. In currently 6'1 and 190 and I just see my belly extending week by week. Its discouraging and makes me incredibly angry when I lift up my shirt to see it.

Its just really cheap and convenient to eat junk food, and its hard to know where to start when it comes to losing weight and eating right on a limited budget. I'm starting to lift again but I know it won't be enough.


What can I do? Help!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nmartinez12443

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Espi is right, plus if you have someone who owns a sam's club card, buy in bulk.
What do you buy? I am sure I can find a much cheaper alternative.
 

Metzgermeister

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If you can force yourself to stick with it for a month or two, you'll wonder how you ever put junk food in your body. I've been eating healthy for years now, and candy tastes disgustingly sweet and fast food actually makes me physically sick.
 

marmel75

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Don't buy junk food at home and you can't eat it. And for gods sakes stop drinking soda...worst thing ever...it leeches minerals and vitamins from your body
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Yeah once you stop eating junk food you won't miss it. Stop eating junk, stop drinking pop (maybe once in a blue moon), start eating right and drinking water and you will feel like a million bucks. And its not even true that all fast food is necessarily junk; Chipotle tastes better than any burger n fries and it makes the perfect excursion once in a while.

The "time" argument is lame, "I only have enough time to do what I feel like doing" is bs. If you are like me and cannot eat in the morning (it's not that I don't have time, I'm just not hungry in the morning at all) just buy boxes of protein bars and use those when you have to move fast, Wheaties "Fuel" bars are my favorite.

The price you pay in diligence is rewarded when you first start feeling better and then after you start seeing it in the mirror. The name of the game is to be totally mindful of everything you eat or drink; "think before you eat" would be a good bumper sticker for it.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Yeah once you stop eating junk food you won't miss it. Stop eating junk, stop drinking pop (maybe once in a blue moon), start eating right and drinking water and you will feel like a million bucks. And its not even true that all fast food is necessarily junk; Chipotle tastes better than any burger n fries and it makes the perfect excursion once in a while.

The "time" argument is lame, "I only have enough time to do what I feel like doing" is bs. If you are like me and cannot eat in the morning (it's not that I don't have time, I'm just not hungry in the morning at all) just buy boxes of protein bars and use those when you have to move fast, Wheaties "Fuel" bars are my favorite.

The price you pay in diligence is rewarded when you first start feeling better and then after you start seeing it in the mirror. The name of the game is to be totally mindful of everything you eat or drink; "think before you eat" would be a good bumper sticker for it.
 
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