"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't stand of her having so many male friends!

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OP, it sounds like you are trying to make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

I sure as F would not put up with this behavior from any girlfriend of mine. As Jophil says, it shows she is not making you enough of a priority, or treating you with the proper respect. But it doesn't do any good to whine about it, that only makes you look AFC. My approach is these are my standards in a LTR, and if you don't meet them then you are gone.

All this stuff about women keeping all their male friends while in a relationship is just more feminist garbage telling them they can have their cake and eat it too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OP, in all fairness your wasting your time trying to educate this chick.

She knows the score, all women like this do.

The only one who is nieve is you.

Sorry dude, but thats the simple truth.

Personnally I dont date girls with male friends, to me your concerns are genuine, but your need to educate is a wasted effort, trust me on this.

She wont change, you wont educate her, because she knows exactly what she is doing.

Never listen to a womans words, instead judge by her actions.

A rule you've clearly forgotten about.
 

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op: just sit back, be indifferent, and enjoy the sex. dont figure her for a ltr, but do have fun. meanwhile, shop for more plates.
 

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You told her you dont like her being in clubs with her friends? Are you ****ing joking?

Buddy your not listening. You looked at 5 good replies telling you the truth, and then you took jophill's reponse and manipulated it to benefit your thinking.

Your not being a man by telling her that 'its not normal'. Your being an insecure *****.

Forget what your thinking, the real problem here is your showing so much insecurity that its going to kill you. Your lying to yourself and her by trying to convince her that its not normal. What your actually saying is 'im a needy *****, i am insecure of you being outside of the house'.

Im telling you now, just like others have told you, she will fall out of love you with you because of this issue. And its 100% your doing.
 

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Joe Stud said:
When tommy lee of motley crew started dating pam anderson, he got into fights over this, as well as over the photohogs. Even wound up in jail.

Vince neil (his band partner) told him "look man, if you're gonna be dating these beautiful women, there's always gonna be guys after them. So you better be ready, because it's gonna happen".

Same thing here. If you are gonna have a HB, to a certain degree... there's gonna be guys orbiting. I'm not saying it's right, and yours is probably an AW, and OVERDOING it.

However you should just learn to handle it. Look at it as the "cost" of having a HB. Would you rather have a fattie? Or a homely chick? No. Just deal with it. You are allowed to choose NOT to make her a wife, but have fun with it.
this goes for ugly and fat women too!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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