"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I can't stand of her having so many male friends!

zekko

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OP, it sounds like you are trying to make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

I sure as F would not put up with this behavior from any girlfriend of mine. As Jophil says, it shows she is not making you enough of a priority, or treating you with the proper respect. But it doesn't do any good to whine about it, that only makes you look AFC. My approach is these are my standards in a LTR, and if you don't meet them then you are gone.

All this stuff about women keeping all their male friends while in a relationship is just more feminist garbage telling them they can have their cake and eat it too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OP, in all fairness your wasting your time trying to educate this chick.

She knows the score, all women like this do.

The only one who is nieve is you.

Sorry dude, but thats the simple truth.

Personnally I dont date girls with male friends, to me your concerns are genuine, but your need to educate is a wasted effort, trust me on this.

She wont change, you wont educate her, because she knows exactly what she is doing.

Never listen to a womans words, instead judge by her actions.

A rule you've clearly forgotten about.
 

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op: just sit back, be indifferent, and enjoy the sex. dont figure her for a ltr, but do have fun. meanwhile, shop for more plates.
 

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You told her you dont like her being in clubs with her friends? Are you ****ing joking?

Buddy your not listening. You looked at 5 good replies telling you the truth, and then you took jophill's reponse and manipulated it to benefit your thinking.

Your not being a man by telling her that 'its not normal'. Your being an insecure *****.

Forget what your thinking, the real problem here is your showing so much insecurity that its going to kill you. Your lying to yourself and her by trying to convince her that its not normal. What your actually saying is 'im a needy *****, i am insecure of you being outside of the house'.

Im telling you now, just like others have told you, she will fall out of love you with you because of this issue. And its 100% your doing.
 

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Joe Stud said:
When tommy lee of motley crew started dating pam anderson, he got into fights over this, as well as over the photohogs. Even wound up in jail.

Vince neil (his band partner) told him "look man, if you're gonna be dating these beautiful women, there's always gonna be guys after them. So you better be ready, because it's gonna happen".

Same thing here. If you are gonna have a HB, to a certain degree... there's gonna be guys orbiting. I'm not saying it's right, and yours is probably an AW, and OVERDOING it.

However you should just learn to handle it. Look at it as the "cost" of having a HB. Would you rather have a fattie? Or a homely chick? No. Just deal with it. You are allowed to choose NOT to make her a wife, but have fun with it.
this goes for ugly and fat women too!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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