"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can't stand of her having so many male friends!

zekko

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OP, it sounds like you are trying to make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

I sure as F would not put up with this behavior from any girlfriend of mine. As Jophil says, it shows she is not making you enough of a priority, or treating you with the proper respect. But it doesn't do any good to whine about it, that only makes you look AFC. My approach is these are my standards in a LTR, and if you don't meet them then you are gone.

All this stuff about women keeping all their male friends while in a relationship is just more feminist garbage telling them they can have their cake and eat it too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OP, in all fairness your wasting your time trying to educate this chick.

She knows the score, all women like this do.

The only one who is nieve is you.

Sorry dude, but thats the simple truth.

Personnally I dont date girls with male friends, to me your concerns are genuine, but your need to educate is a wasted effort, trust me on this.

She wont change, you wont educate her, because she knows exactly what she is doing.

Never listen to a womans words, instead judge by her actions.

A rule you've clearly forgotten about.
 

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op: just sit back, be indifferent, and enjoy the sex. dont figure her for a ltr, but do have fun. meanwhile, shop for more plates.
 

Ease

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You told her you dont like her being in clubs with her friends? Are you ****ing joking?

Buddy your not listening. You looked at 5 good replies telling you the truth, and then you took jophill's reponse and manipulated it to benefit your thinking.

Your not being a man by telling her that 'its not normal'. Your being an insecure *****.

Forget what your thinking, the real problem here is your showing so much insecurity that its going to kill you. Your lying to yourself and her by trying to convince her that its not normal. What your actually saying is 'im a needy *****, i am insecure of you being outside of the house'.

Im telling you now, just like others have told you, she will fall out of love you with you because of this issue. And its 100% your doing.
 

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Joe Stud said:
When tommy lee of motley crew started dating pam anderson, he got into fights over this, as well as over the photohogs. Even wound up in jail.

Vince neil (his band partner) told him "look man, if you're gonna be dating these beautiful women, there's always gonna be guys after them. So you better be ready, because it's gonna happen".

Same thing here. If you are gonna have a HB, to a certain degree... there's gonna be guys orbiting. I'm not saying it's right, and yours is probably an AW, and OVERDOING it.

However you should just learn to handle it. Look at it as the "cost" of having a HB. Would you rather have a fattie? Or a homely chick? No. Just deal with it. You are allowed to choose NOT to make her a wife, but have fun with it.
this goes for ugly and fat women too!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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