"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't squat!

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I don't think squat flexibility has much to do with hamstring flexibility. Or at least not the hamstring flexibility required to touch your toes. I can only touch the top of my feet. I can go pretty low on ATG squats though, the only think stopping my depth is my hamstrings and calves smushing each other.

There were some squats I had to bail outta of. Most of the time I just cheat by goodmorning it, but sometimes I have to drop and leg the power rack safty bars catch the bar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can touch the ground with flat palms but if I keep my back straight I only get to 45 degrees! Stretching is not really helping much. Maybe I have to do it every day.
Has anyone used a fome roller to help iron out the knots?
 

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wolf116 said:
I can touch the ground with flat palms but if I keep my back straight I only get to 45 degrees! Stretching is not really helping much. Maybe I have to do it every day.
Has anyone used a fome roller to help iron out the knots?
I think thats how it is for everyone.

Foam roller is awesome, too bad everyone is selling it for 30 bucks around here :mad:
 

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They're $10 online.

I've been using one everyday ($40 professional grade) for 2 weeks. Some places the knots are already gone, others it just won't let up and there doesn't seem to be any progress. Some places are just PAINFUL to do, and funny enough it's not because of the pressure on the sore spot, it's because, for example, the ITB rolling pulls on my knee hard in some places so my knee aches and that's worse than the actual sore spots. I really bare down but i have a high tolerance for pain.. i know a lot of people fill fufu it and then say it doesn't work.

I've also been using softball and tennis balls to get my traps and rest of my upper back. My neck has been sore for a very long time and it's actually starting to feel better.
 

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I'll give a foam roller a try then.

What about putting a spacer under my heels?
Olympic lifters have heels don't they?
Good or bad idea?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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