"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can't squat!

spesmilitis

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I don't think squat flexibility has much to do with hamstring flexibility. Or at least not the hamstring flexibility required to touch your toes. I can only touch the top of my feet. I can go pretty low on ATG squats though, the only think stopping my depth is my hamstrings and calves smushing each other.

There were some squats I had to bail outta of. Most of the time I just cheat by goodmorning it, but sometimes I have to drop and leg the power rack safty bars catch the bar.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can touch the ground with flat palms but if I keep my back straight I only get to 45 degrees! Stretching is not really helping much. Maybe I have to do it every day.
Has anyone used a fome roller to help iron out the knots?
 

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wolf116 said:
I can touch the ground with flat palms but if I keep my back straight I only get to 45 degrees! Stretching is not really helping much. Maybe I have to do it every day.
Has anyone used a fome roller to help iron out the knots?
I think thats how it is for everyone.

Foam roller is awesome, too bad everyone is selling it for 30 bucks around here :mad:
 

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They're $10 online.

I've been using one everyday ($40 professional grade) for 2 weeks. Some places the knots are already gone, others it just won't let up and there doesn't seem to be any progress. Some places are just PAINFUL to do, and funny enough it's not because of the pressure on the sore spot, it's because, for example, the ITB rolling pulls on my knee hard in some places so my knee aches and that's worse than the actual sore spots. I really bare down but i have a high tolerance for pain.. i know a lot of people fill fufu it and then say it doesn't work.

I've also been using softball and tennis balls to get my traps and rest of my upper back. My neck has been sore for a very long time and it's actually starting to feel better.
 

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I'll give a foam roller a try then.

What about putting a spacer under my heels?
Olympic lifters have heels don't they?
Good or bad idea?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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