I can't make them stay

[NaturalSpirit]

Hi folks, i'm new here and this is my first post .
I've been talking to girls before , i made out with them, building conection and so on.. but for some reason i can't make them stay around me for too long.

Recently i've been on two dates with this girl , she liked me while i was out with her, things went smooth between us. At first i wasn't even liked her that much , she chased me with texts ,asking me out, i discussed with my friends about this girl and they said i was to cold to her, recently she asked me out and i denied her telling that we gonna postpone for tomorrow, but she said that this isn't possible because she gonna leave town for couple of days.

The next day,I listened to my friends advice and I decided to be a little "caring" , so I messaged her "good morning :*", she could just said something but she didn't, and hasn't respond. (and i'm not gonna text twice ), and posted a pic with some guy .

Guys,now my question is : how can I make these girls want me even more? I mean how can I make the last longer around me? keep the interested and so on

I am willing to experiment anything and of course i am also open to any piece of adivce, let's learn toghether.

 

[RangerMIke]

Nothing you can do to keep a chick around. She will drift in and out depending on her emotions. The only thing you can do is not care when this happens. The best way not to care is never lock in on one chick, you should have at least two women you are dating, preferably three.

You can't 'make' a particular chick want you... you just cast a wide net and filter them out. Make time for chicks that like you and ignore those that do not.

You handled this chick poorly. When a chick reaches out to you, make a date. If you are busy, then trying to find time to spend with her. She asked you out, you should have countered not just told her no.

 

[marmel75]

You arent at the top of her list, she probably is geting interest shown by someone who is...

Nothing you can do...keep dating other women

 

[NaturalSpirit]

Nothing you can do to keep a chick around. She will drift in and out depending on her emotions. The only thing you can do is not care when this happens. The best way not to care is never lock in on one chick, you should have at least two women you are dating, preferably three.

You can't 'make' a particular chick want you... you just cast a wide net and filter them out. Make time for chicks that like you and ignore those that do not.

You handled this chick poorly. When a chick reaches out to you, make a date. If you are busy, then trying to find time to spend with her. She asked you out, you should have countered not just told her no.

I think you are right man. I'll go "no contact" and try with other chicks, she eventually will come back , but if she don't, no problem, I just wanted to fvck and dump her anyway, not a big loss.

 

[ubercat]

The fvck and dump is a bit butthurt ego talking. This Girl Got to you on some level. You sound like a younger guy so you're probably not interested in ltr game. But if the sex was good why would you throw away a plate. You have to invest time and often money in getting access to pvssy. So pragmatically speaking that first two to three months of regular sex before they push for more is gold for a young guy.

 

[NaturalSpirit]

The fvck and dump is a bit butthurt ego talking. This Girl Got to you on some level. You sound like a younger guy so you're probably not interested in ltr game. But if the sex was good why would you throw away a plate. You have to invest time and often money in getting access to pvssy. So pragmatically speaking that first two to three months of regular sex before they push for more is gold for a young guy.

Good point, but I like to filter them as much as I can. When some chick doesn't respond to my text(not texts because i won't text twice), i see this as a form of disrespect, I can't allow a girl to disrespect me again.
Maybe I am a little bit "butthurt" , who knows..but "no contact" will do.

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

Nothing you can do to keep a chick around. She will drift in and out depending on her emotions. The only thing you can do is not care when this happens. The best way not to care is never lock in on one chick, you should have at least two women you are dating, preferably three.

You can't 'make' a particular chick want you... you just cast a wide net and filter them out. Make time for chicks that like you and ignore those that do not.

You handled this chick poorly. When a chick reaches out to you, make a date. If you are busy, then trying to find time to spend with her. She asked you out, you should have countered not just told her no.

This is true. It's always good to counter if you are truly busy. Girls don't want someone whose rude to them. Be nice but take time to respond, etc.

 

[ubercat]

Fair enuff. I have never advised guys to put up with any disrespect and I never will.

However note I was commenting specifically on your attitude. Your reply to me was about the goings on which is a different topic. A clever debating technique often employed by women.

Especially when thinking about inner game it's important not to get defensive and really critically examine what you're thinking and how you're responding. I know because I'm old and I've made just about every mistake there is.

 

[Macaframalama]

Hi folks, i'm new here and this is my first post .
I've been talking to girls before , i made out with them, building conection and so on.. but for some reason i can't make them stay around me for too long.

Recently i've been on two dates with this girl , she liked me while i was out with her, things went smooth between us. At first i wasn't even liked her that much , she chased me with texts ,asking me out, i discussed with my friends about this girl and they said i was to cold to her, recently she asked me out and i denied her telling that we gonna postpone for tomorrow, but she said that this isn't possible because she gonna leave town for couple of days.

The next day,I listened to my friends advice and I decided to be a little "caring" , so I messaged her "good morning :*", she could just said something but she didn't, and hasn't respond. (and i'm not gonna text twice ), and posted a pic with some guy .

Guys,now my question is : how can I make these girls want me even more? I mean how can I make the last longer around me? keep the interested and so on

I am willing to experiment anything and of course i am also open to any piece of adivce, let's learn toghether.

Get them to invest emotionally, sexually and financially and you can keep them around for as long as you want.

 

[Reykhel]

Women are generally fickle by nature and more importantly they are outside your circle of control.

The only thing that's really inside your circle of control is how you spend your present moments with her.....enjoy them, make them fun FOR YOU

Really you need to change your mindset (thus the ENERGY your subcommunications give off)

.....DOES SHE DESERVE TO SEE ME AGAIN

It's amazing how shifting the question can completely shift your energy THUS THE INTERACTION