"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can't "love" women... (NO HOMO)

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you all know I am struggling with chicks.
damn it, I am still soldiering on hard but there is biggest problem when I interact with girls. It's not lack of seduction knowledge, smile, CF, funny lines, jokes, body language, or not even confidence.

I don't seem to be happy and energized around girls. Don't troll saying I should come out of closet now. I am gona kill you :)
No really, I want women. I love the beauty of women, the curve, the hair, the t!ts, the vagina, the smooth skin, but man, why can't I get up happy energy when I am around them? It seems like as soon as I start talking to women, my happy feelings become locked up and I become minorly depressive.

When I was 16, my girlfriend cheated on my best friend, and ever since then, I started having jaded view about girls, and now that I am 21, and seen lot of girls fvcking over other men, my views on women became very opaque, and honestly I can tell I almost hate them sometimes. With my fella dudes, I have no problem being up-lifting and cheerful b/c I love the fact that I am a guy. So I love God's awesome creation of "man" in general. But I guess this haltering view about women is affecting me a lot.

What y'al think? remember I want women not dudes, ok lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As much as I'd like to generalize and say that women are all soul-sucking leeches that are out to make you miserable, the truth is a lot more complicated. Some women are evil, some women are crazy, and some women are all of the above, but some aren't. Don't fall into the trap of having a few bad experiences and generalizing an entire sex because of it. Are they different? Sure. When it comes to any person, a lot of things are just bound not to make sense and we can interpret these things a number of ways, but overall, we'll never entirely understand them. You can either get mad or you can take it for what it is, enjoy them for what they are, and react accordingly.
 
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Well I wish I were in your boat. I recently told a girl I've been seeing for a month I love her. I still love my ex wife and love my neighbor. While I have no problem telling a girl I love her, I do have a problem falling to soon and hard. I would kill for my ex wife and the girl I'm talking to. I wish I could be done with her. I just spent four or five hours with her. I want to go totally no contact soon. She told me today she was going to prove me wrong today I told her the same thing.I think I'm a throw back to those old school guys like pvssy whipped Romeo. I never thought I would feel the way I do. I thought I was emotionless and had no feelings.But you probably find a girl that shares your interests and is a cool person. Someone laid back and could make you laugh. I wish I couldn't love it wouldn't hurt so bad that some women are evil. Find the girl that will break down your barriers then you'll be happy
 
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HariPoter13 said:
stop watching so much porn
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it'll do that to you...stop jerkin it for like a week and you'll see how many girls you start liking...


not liking girls correlates to low levels of testosterome and that just comes from beating it too much....or your just flat out g.ay one or the other :whistle:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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or if your too nervous you just need to do something that you would consider way more dangerous than talking to girls like FOOTBALL or Paintballing...bad boys get chicks just because its by far the easiest thing going in there life...Getting Women comes natural to the Audacious
 
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Badmannaz said:
or if your too nervous you just need to do something that you would consider way more dangerous than talking to girls like FOOTBALL or Paintballing...bad boys get chicks just because its by far the easiest thing going in there life...Getting Women comes natural to the Audacious
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eh, i don watch porn really or beat meat a lot, and def not everyday. I workout almost everyday dealing with heavy weights and trying to gain more mass. I also plan to do boxing this summer, so see how that help my life overall. I also ride motorcycle and almost got derailed few times. plenty dangerous everyday. I don't know man, my life is already hard enough with school and gym, but it's weird. I don't feel happy to be around chicks. Let me clarify, as much i want to fvck them and feel sexual around women, I think my mind goes on thinking "damn it's just another work". I know fun is a big component in dealing with women but I seem like I can't have fun and relax the fvck out.
 
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Badmannaz said:
it'll do that to you...stop jerkin it for like a week and you'll see how many girls you start liking...


not liking girls correlates to low levels of testosterome and that just comes from beating it too much....or your just flat out g.ay one or the other :whistle:
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I heard that if you masturbate too much, the Masturbation Monster comes to your house and steals your pets.
 
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