"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't "love" women... (NO HOMO)

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you all know I am struggling with chicks.
damn it, I am still soldiering on hard but there is biggest problem when I interact with girls. It's not lack of seduction knowledge, smile, CF, funny lines, jokes, body language, or not even confidence.

I don't seem to be happy and energized around girls. Don't troll saying I should come out of closet now. I am gona kill you :)
No really, I want women. I love the beauty of women, the curve, the hair, the t!ts, the vagina, the smooth skin, but man, why can't I get up happy energy when I am around them? It seems like as soon as I start talking to women, my happy feelings become locked up and I become minorly depressive.

When I was 16, my girlfriend cheated on my best friend, and ever since then, I started having jaded view about girls, and now that I am 21, and seen lot of girls fvcking over other men, my views on women became very opaque, and honestly I can tell I almost hate them sometimes. With my fella dudes, I have no problem being up-lifting and cheerful b/c I love the fact that I am a guy. So I love God's awesome creation of "man" in general. But I guess this haltering view about women is affecting me a lot.

What y'al think? remember I want women not dudes, ok lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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As much as I'd like to generalize and say that women are all soul-sucking leeches that are out to make you miserable, the truth is a lot more complicated. Some women are evil, some women are crazy, and some women are all of the above, but some aren't. Don't fall into the trap of having a few bad experiences and generalizing an entire sex because of it. Are they different? Sure. When it comes to any person, a lot of things are just bound not to make sense and we can interpret these things a number of ways, but overall, we'll never entirely understand them. You can either get mad or you can take it for what it is, enjoy them for what they are, and react accordingly.
 
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Well I wish I were in your boat. I recently told a girl I've been seeing for a month I love her. I still love my ex wife and love my neighbor. While I have no problem telling a girl I love her, I do have a problem falling to soon and hard. I would kill for my ex wife and the girl I'm talking to. I wish I could be done with her. I just spent four or five hours with her. I want to go totally no contact soon. She told me today she was going to prove me wrong today I told her the same thing.I think I'm a throw back to those old school guys like pvssy whipped Romeo. I never thought I would feel the way I do. I thought I was emotionless and had no feelings.But you probably find a girl that shares your interests and is a cool person. Someone laid back and could make you laugh. I wish I couldn't love it wouldn't hurt so bad that some women are evil. Find the girl that will break down your barriers then you'll be happy
 
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HariPoter13 said:
stop watching so much porn
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it'll do that to you...stop jerkin it for like a week and you'll see how many girls you start liking...


not liking girls correlates to low levels of testosterome and that just comes from beating it too much....or your just flat out g.ay one or the other :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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or if your too nervous you just need to do something that you would consider way more dangerous than talking to girls like FOOTBALL or Paintballing...bad boys get chicks just because its by far the easiest thing going in there life...Getting Women comes natural to the Audacious
 
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Badmannaz said:
or if your too nervous you just need to do something that you would consider way more dangerous than talking to girls like FOOTBALL or Paintballing...bad boys get chicks just because its by far the easiest thing going in there life...Getting Women comes natural to the Audacious
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eh, i don watch porn really or beat meat a lot, and def not everyday. I workout almost everyday dealing with heavy weights and trying to gain more mass. I also plan to do boxing this summer, so see how that help my life overall. I also ride motorcycle and almost got derailed few times. plenty dangerous everyday. I don't know man, my life is already hard enough with school and gym, but it's weird. I don't feel happy to be around chicks. Let me clarify, as much i want to fvck them and feel sexual around women, I think my mind goes on thinking "damn it's just another work". I know fun is a big component in dealing with women but I seem like I can't have fun and relax the fvck out.
 
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Badmannaz said:
it'll do that to you...stop jerkin it for like a week and you'll see how many girls you start liking...


not liking girls correlates to low levels of testosterome and that just comes from beating it too much....or your just flat out g.ay one or the other :whistle:
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I heard that if you masturbate too much, the Masturbation Monster comes to your house and steals your pets.
 
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