I can't imagine a more stressful experience as a single day event than a wedding

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

That's basically an entire day where she is the superstar of the day and you're the support role wheter you like it or not.

As an introvert that pays attention to his finances, it would be a blow like seeing naked teen boys dressed as girls burning the bible for a priest.

You basically spend the entire day trying to keep some stability in a place where you dont know half of the people and even the ones you know will drink, make inappropriate jokes, try to involve you in singing, acting or drama.

It will go for hours and hours where you will spend your time either sitting near the bride (the superstar of the day) for hours or moving around making a fool of yourself dancing or dealing with random people non-stop.
Some will do stupid questions, some will give you unsolicited advices while others proper life rules.

That's the best day for her and a martyrdom like experience for you.

But let's get to the most important part, the ring...basically a huge chunk of your wealth (and mental health) that goes away only cause she needs a stone to match her friends from instagram and show off to her other married friends.

I wonder why less and less men are choosing such barbaric practive from the past.

Such event is the most unpleasant one, second only to a proper crucifixion.

 

[CornbreadFed]

My dad got married at the court house. I plan to follow suit if I decide to get married.

 

[SW15]

Such event is the most unpleasant one, second only to a proper crucifixion.

The groom does get to pound the bride's pusssy that night so that's the upside of the whole day.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The groom does get to pound the bride's pusssy that night so that's the upside of the whole day.

that’s an If and not even worth it if you’ve been accumulated to it by now.

 

[SW15]

that’s an If and not even worth it if you’ve been accumulated to it by now.

Who the fucck wouldn't have sex on the night of the wedding?

You have a good point about being used to that pusssy by that night.

 

[BadBoy89]

That’s why I always say:

- Prenup first
- Her pregnant and deliver healthy baby next
- Courthouse marriage next (if she really wants it, I’m a feminist. I don’t believe in old school traditional values that hold women down)
- Big wedding once the child turns 3 years old.

 

[Machine10033]

Control the narrative or walk.

I got a prenup... signed with multiple witnesses.

I told her the wedding was about us. I didn’t need her friends or family dictating what checks I wrote.

close family on a beach at sunset. Followed by a dinner at a steak/seafood hub.

Cost for wedding 2500.......

I won’t even delve into the amount protected by the prenuptial agreement. Men need to take their testicles back and be willing to walk away if the agreement isn’t suitable to their potential spouse.

 

[The Duke]

When I got married, we did a beach resort destination wedding with close family. Fun and relatively cheap. Everyone enjoyed it and thanked us for not having a traditional wedding. They felt like it was a vacation.

There was no sex on our wedding nite. It wasnt a huge deal because we had been together 10yrs previous, but it did rub me the wrong way. To be fair It had a been long day in the sun, drinking, etc so we were both exhausted. She definitely made it up the days following.

 

[SW15]

There was no sex on our wedding nite. It wasnt a huge deal because we had been together 10yrs previous, but it did rub me the wrong way. To be fair It had a been long day in the sun, drinking, etc so we were both exhausted. She definitely made it up the days following.

No sex on the wedding night would be an annoyance, even for a longer term couple that has had sex many times. Sex on a wedding night is a bit of a tradition. That's why it's good not to go overboard with food or alcohol at the reception. Save the energy for sex.

 

[RazorRambo24]

When you're an alpha male, you are the captain of the ship. The attitude you have in this post is not even one that would occur with someone like myself. Plus, its one day where the woman gets to really feel like a princess.. With us alpha males, the rest of the time, we're the ones being treated like Kings. Just how it goes.

 

[BeExcellent]

First wedding was destination in Vegas. Planned in one phone call. 35 people came, close friends & family. Everyone had a blast. We didn’t even bother with invitations, just called everyone & they came out. Lots of fun, nice event, no stress at all.

Getting married second time later this month. Small ceremony, followed by dinner with everyone at our favorite restaurant with all the guests. Probably 50 people, family & close friends….will be very nice, and very reasonable for what we are doing.

I wasn’t going to remarry at all, but he’s hard to resist. I’d do it at the courthouse since I’ve done it before so really this is for him and his family as much as for us.

He bought a beautiful ring. Not to outcompete my girlfriends or anything but for me to have a valuable token of our relationship that I wear every day and that says TAKEN to other men I encounter.

OP, a wedding is what you make it. Yes I’ll be a beautiful bride etc., but to me this is as much about him too, about us. The marriage is what counts. After the wedding day all you have is photos and memories so don’t break the bank on the wedding (but get a great photographer)….

 

[CornbreadFed]

Who the fucck wouldn't have sex on the night of the wedding?

Me if I’m too tired lol. I am not going to force it or anything. Why does it matter if I’ve already been hitting it? Also, I do not care for traditional customs tbh. I’ll eat pizza or Chinese food on thanksgiving and be happy. I’ll honor traditions that make sense, but I’ll quickly dump the ones I consider silly. BTW your statement just confirmed my MBTI on you

 

[SW15]

Me if I’m too tired lol. I am not going to force it or anything. Why does it matter if I’ve already been hitting it? Also, I do not care for traditional customs tbh. I’ll eat pizza or Chinese food on thanksgiving and be happy. I’ll honor traditions that make sense, but I’ll quickly dump the ones I consider silly.

According to this article, wedding night sex is less common in the current era. This is because most couples are having sex prior to the marriage. Wedding night sex was a much bigger deal in the era when more people were virgins prior to marriage.

https://www.theknot.com/content/what-happens-on-wedding-night

When I have thought about the post wedding receptions with a lot of the marriages of my friends, I wondered how they would have found the time to have the wedding night sex.

 

[CornbreadFed]

According to this article, wedding night sex is less common in the current era. This is because most couples are having sex prior to the marriage. Wedding night sex was a much bigger deal in the era when more people were virgins prior to marriage.

This makes sense. It loses its strong appeal after the honey moon phase.

 

[corrector]

Had a big wedding back in 2014 and 200 guests were invited. It took allot of planning, invites, and the marriage didn't lost more than 2-3 months at the end of it. My equipment wasn't working that great but at least I went inside her. This was the only woman that I've ever had full-on vaginal sex with and obviously I'm no longer a virgin. Apart from that aspect, there was no honeymoon and it went rather sour quickly to culminate into a divorce that happened too soon.