"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can't find Walnuts

bud_2005

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Where do you find walnuts at? I cant find them anywhere. The only time I have ever found walnuts were Emeralds Glazed Walnuts, although delicious, not very good for you. In the grocery store all I every see are peanuts, mixed nuts, and cashews. Even at Wal Mart I can't find them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LoneSilver

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Do you have a CVS in your area?

I bought a 9oz bag CVS brand and they have lasted me now all week.

Wal-mart has them you just have to look around the produce area where they have the plastic bags for produce look around there at least this is where I have found them in this SuperCenter Wal-mart I live and there like 5 bucks but forget how many ounces but all natural just like the CVS bag I got for around 4 bucks.

Walnuts are good for Omega-3's so if your budget allows it's worth the health benefits verses the cost.

Hope this helps.

LoneSilver
 

penkitten

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some stores put them by the apples and bananas over in produce
other stores put them in the baking section over by the pie filling and sugar and marshmallows
 

insidious

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I buy mine at Trader Joe's and their walnut prices are pretty damn competitive with most stores.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Hmm I get the sense there's a grocery store opener in here somewhere...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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