I cant figure out whats wrong with me

[Ntwadumela]

I got a problem that i dont know how to fix.

Ive been readin up on all the dj stuff for a while now. I know pretty much what a girl wants (alpha male) and all that stuff.(neg hits, keno, ect.)

But for some reason, i just dont approach girls. Its not that im terrified of them,(a little scared, but thats regular) or that im not confident, but i just dont.

I am confident in the way i look and lift weights like a pro. And i know im a cool a$$ dude(im friends with everyone and no one really hates me). but that doesnt help me. Lots of my friends say things like "Dude, You should be gettin pvssy all the time!"

It makes me mad to hear that because i know that i can. but i dont know what it is about me. I want to fvck girls soo bad, and thats all that i think about(because its summer...), but when it comes down to it, i dont to sh*t.

Its makin me mad, and im askin for help. I know I just got to say F*CK IT!, but i dont. There is this hot ass girl who goes to my school, and who lives on my block. I already know she has shown interest and if i give her a call or two, she'd be down to F*ck. I just dont know what the hell is wrong with me. I dont wanna c*m into a toilet all my life.

 

[Tooms]

just get w/ a girl, once you force urself to do that, then it wont be hard nemore, pick up the phone and make a booty call, if you have the balls for that-(id be a little worried bout tryin to pull that one off myself tho..)

 

[Jerky Boi]

Oh man, I feel ya. I'm 17 and still a virgin too but you have to think about it this way..


You can't just KNOW everything there is about DJ'ing. You have to have the state of mind and want to change. If you say you have confidence, what's stopping you from going up to that girl and talking to her? You're a DJ..top of the line. She's no better than you in any way. Once you get over this, you may not be able to get any girl you want, but you'll be able to approach any girl you want. You have to reach deep down inside and get rid of that fear. Good luck man

 

[splinterkb]

Sounds like your ambition is lacking, and you're not applying the skills you learn to their full extent.

 

[CableLight]

This is a perfect example of how you can read about anything this site has to offer, look like a winner, and still not get the success you want with gals.

I'm not dissing you, thats honestly how it is for many people - They KNOW...they fvcking KNOW what they're "supposed to do" but dont do it. This is the key to whats locking you down - You've gotta act, plain and simple.

You cant "DJ a girl" without talking to one first, just like you cant get to know anyone without first saying "hello." It's like trying to build a bridge without first building supports for it: You cant start at the top and work your way down, you've gotta start at the bottom and work your way up.

Remember this: The only thing that can possibly stop you is yourself. When you no longer feel held down by a fear of rejection, you will be free.