"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can't feel a thing with a condom on.

Vice

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I'm sure that many of you have had this problem before. I can't feel a thing when I have one on, and I don't know if it's in or out of her. And then I become bored and then limp. Not fun.

I'll go for it without one on, but I know this can be a horrible idea. It feels much better without one on.

What are some solutions? Anyone else have this issue before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Drewskie

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I totally have the same issue, but unless it's your LTR, it beats the alternative.
 

amoka

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Drewskie said:
I totally have the same issue, but unless it's your LTR, it beats the alternative.
Thats right... else STD and/or child support
 
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