"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can't feel a thing with a condom on.

Vice

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I'm sure that many of you have had this problem before. I can't feel a thing when I have one on, and I don't know if it's in or out of her. And then I become bored and then limp. Not fun.

I'll go for it without one on, but I know this can be a horrible idea. It feels much better without one on.

What are some solutions? Anyone else have this issue before?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Drewskie

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I totally have the same issue, but unless it's your LTR, it beats the alternative.
 

amoka

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Drewskie said:
I totally have the same issue, but unless it's your LTR, it beats the alternative.
Thats right... else STD and/or child support
 
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