"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can't close!

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Hello all,

I just want to thank everyone in the community for what they have done. The vast information has forever changed my life and I appreciate you guys helping each other out!

But as for my problem... I can't close! My inexperience in kissing and being a virgin is holding me back. I just choke when I get to that point with a chick.
I am afraid and its pissing me off these days. Maybe i just got to do it but its easier said then done.
Any of you guys have that problem or use to have?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SucceedSocially

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Keep at it and you'll get it eventually. This is one of those situations where you may screw up with 8 different girls, getting a little closer each time, but sill blowing it, before you get it right (because of nerves, inexperience, whatever). Just accept these mess ups as part of the learning process.

You can make the process go a little quicker by just practicing on any half decent girl. Are you hitting it off with a 7 at a bar? Try to kiss her. Dancing with a 7? Try to kiss her. You'll build up your tolerance for going for it much quicker, and once you've done it a few times it gets way easier.

As for sex, it's really not that complicated. Don't be afraid of not being able to do it properly. You put it in and thrust your hips. Or just let her get on top, then you don't have to do anything.
 
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Well the key here is finding somebody who does, for whatever reason, give you the confidence to go for it all and just do it. If you think what I just said is immoral, then it is already too late and you should continue pursuing something else in life, such as a big house, riches, etc.

Some people don't have sex because there's a mental block telling them there's something not quite right. Others believe it is right because it is what they feel. Other people put their mental blocks aside and just follow nature, and that ability is only attained through experience. Decide whether or not you want to fornicate these women and set a goal relating to your decision; if it never feels right, then just don't do it. Life will reward you either way.
 
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