"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello all,

I just want to thank everyone in the community for what they have done. The vast information has forever changed my life and I appreciate you guys helping each other out!

But as for my problem... I can't close! My inexperience in kissing and being a virgin is holding me back. I just choke when I get to that point with a chick.
I am afraid and its pissing me off these days. Maybe i just got to do it but its easier said then done.
Any of you guys have that problem or use to have?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SucceedSocially

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Keep at it and you'll get it eventually. This is one of those situations where you may screw up with 8 different girls, getting a little closer each time, but sill blowing it, before you get it right (because of nerves, inexperience, whatever). Just accept these mess ups as part of the learning process.

You can make the process go a little quicker by just practicing on any half decent girl. Are you hitting it off with a 7 at a bar? Try to kiss her. Dancing with a 7? Try to kiss her. You'll build up your tolerance for going for it much quicker, and once you've done it a few times it gets way easier.

As for sex, it's really not that complicated. Don't be afraid of not being able to do it properly. You put it in and thrust your hips. Or just let her get on top, then you don't have to do anything.
 
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Well the key here is finding somebody who does, for whatever reason, give you the confidence to go for it all and just do it. If you think what I just said is immoral, then it is already too late and you should continue pursuing something else in life, such as a big house, riches, etc.

Some people don't have sex because there's a mental block telling them there's something not quite right. Others believe it is right because it is what they feel. Other people put their mental blocks aside and just follow nature, and that ability is only attained through experience. Decide whether or not you want to fornicate these women and set a goal relating to your decision; if it never feels right, then just don't do it. Life will reward you either way.
 
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