"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i cant believe this. i hate girls!

boynamedsue

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Just found out from a reliable source that this happend. A month ago I saw my ex out and we ended up goin back to my place and hooked up. Little did I know that she ****ed someone else earlier that day... She's been telling me she hasn't hooked up with anyone, now I hear this a month later. I feel full of emotion. This sucks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hexx

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Words/actions principle and anti-slut shield both up at the same time!
 

SandHawk

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It's your ex, you shouldn't ***** about this. You guys are over, and this is exactly why you go NC on your ex's ass. You just given her exactly what she needed: Confirmation you're still there for her when she needs an ego boost.

She clearly moved on, and you didn't. Go No Contact on her. Dump her number / Facebook / MSN / whatever contact info and totally block her out. Go live your own life.
 

Cinamon

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How much do you trust your reliable source not to have their own agenda on this one?

Are you more bothered that she had sex with someone else or that she had sex with someone else and then came to you. If its the first, then you need to find away to get over her, she is your past, and if its the latter, then in a bizarre way its a compilment. The other guy couldnt fulfill her 'needs' you did. It says something for your performance :)
 

Drones200

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Hooked up? You mean had sex or got back together? If it's the ladder then tell her to F herself shes probably still banging that guy. If it was the former then why do you care?

Because you still have feelings for her and are wooped like a doggy, that's why.
Cut her off, get over her and move on. Find others and give it time she will mean nothing to in a matter of months once you start hooking up with other girls. Listen, if she really didn't mean anything you anymore *she shouldn't* you wouldn't care!
You think I give a crap that my **** buddy ****ed her bf the night before when I'm ****ing her? No. Shes nothing to me, just a tool to help my sexual desires.
The day she decides not to bang me anymore I won't shed a tear, I'll have someone to replace her in a few weeks if not less.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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