"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i cant believe this. i hate girls!

boynamedsue

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Just found out from a reliable source that this happend. A month ago I saw my ex out and we ended up goin back to my place and hooked up. Little did I know that she ****ed someone else earlier that day... She's been telling me she hasn't hooked up with anyone, now I hear this a month later. I feel full of emotion. This sucks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Words/actions principle and anti-slut shield both up at the same time!
 

SandHawk

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It's your ex, you shouldn't ***** about this. You guys are over, and this is exactly why you go NC on your ex's ass. You just given her exactly what she needed: Confirmation you're still there for her when she needs an ego boost.

She clearly moved on, and you didn't. Go No Contact on her. Dump her number / Facebook / MSN / whatever contact info and totally block her out. Go live your own life.
 

Cinamon

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How much do you trust your reliable source not to have their own agenda on this one?

Are you more bothered that she had sex with someone else or that she had sex with someone else and then came to you. If its the first, then you need to find away to get over her, she is your past, and if its the latter, then in a bizarre way its a compilment. The other guy couldnt fulfill her 'needs' you did. It says something for your performance :)
 

Drones200

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Hooked up? You mean had sex or got back together? If it's the ladder then tell her to F herself shes probably still banging that guy. If it was the former then why do you care?

Because you still have feelings for her and are wooped like a doggy, that's why.
Cut her off, get over her and move on. Find others and give it time she will mean nothing to in a matter of months once you start hooking up with other girls. Listen, if she really didn't mean anything you anymore *she shouldn't* you wouldn't care!
You think I give a crap that my **** buddy ****ed her bf the night before when I'm ****ing her? No. Shes nothing to me, just a tool to help my sexual desires.
The day she decides not to bang me anymore I won't shed a tear, I'll have someone to replace her in a few weeks if not less.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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