"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I can't believe I'm falling into one-itis...

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Iguana

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I'm starting to date this girl I like so much. Yesterday was the weirdest date I've ever had. It was so awkward...I feel something's wrong.

Anyways, I don't want you guys to analyze my situation because that's useless, but F U C K!!!! I can't believe I'm giving this one girl so much importance, I'm pissed at myself!!

I'm trying to see what did I do wrong or how can I improve but I can't see how!!

This is gay...I never thought I would make a thread like this one....

The problem is not the situation itself, the problem is ME giving this girl so much importance...

I MUST do something to prevent this explosive one-itis coming my way. She is totally in control of my emotions, if the date goes welll, I'm happy, if the date goes bad, I'm sad. It's so ****ing gay!

Any king of advice would be appreciated, thanks.

Iguana
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some advice...

Man, take it easy.... You are 20 years old, and maybe you just started to like this girl? It normal to like someone, and the emotions/effects of liking someone are just like what u said u have... So you like this chick, BIG DEAL! You can do one of 2 things.... Either keep seeing her and see where things go, maybe a relationship?:rolleyes: Or you can cut off contact with this girl (If you think that u wont be able to "control" yourself eith your emotions/feelings for this girl) and see other women asap... The decision is yours.;)


Laterz...
 
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Re: Some advice...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Man, take it easy.... You are 20 years old, and maybe you just started to like this girl? It normal to like someone, and the emotions/effects of liking someone are just like what u said u have... So you like this chick, BIG DEAL! You can do one of 2 things.... Either keep seeing her and see where things go, maybe a relationship?:rolleyes: Or you can cut off contact with this girl (If you think that u wont be able to "control" yourself eith your emotions/feelings for this girl) and see other women asap... The decision is yours.;)


Laterz...
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what he said... jeeze man stop calling her until next week
 
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Yeah.

I know it's normal to like somebody. We kissed yesterday for the first time but it was so weird I can't even explain it. I woke up today feeling so DOWN. That's why I made the post.

Thanks for the advice.
 
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