"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can't believe I'm falling into one-itis...

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I'm starting to date this girl I like so much. Yesterday was the weirdest date I've ever had. It was so awkward...I feel something's wrong.

Anyways, I don't want you guys to analyze my situation because that's useless, but F U C K!!!! I can't believe I'm giving this one girl so much importance, I'm pissed at myself!!

I'm trying to see what did I do wrong or how can I improve but I can't see how!!

This is gay...I never thought I would make a thread like this one....

The problem is not the situation itself, the problem is ME giving this girl so much importance...

I MUST do something to prevent this explosive one-itis coming my way. She is totally in control of my emotions, if the date goes welll, I'm happy, if the date goes bad, I'm sad. It's so ****ing gay!

Any king of advice would be appreciated, thanks.

Iguana
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some advice...

Man, take it easy.... You are 20 years old, and maybe you just started to like this girl? It normal to like someone, and the emotions/effects of liking someone are just like what u said u have... So you like this chick, BIG DEAL! You can do one of 2 things.... Either keep seeing her and see where things go, maybe a relationship?:rolleyes: Or you can cut off contact with this girl (If you think that u wont be able to "control" yourself eith your emotions/feelings for this girl) and see other women asap... The decision is yours.;)


Laterz...
 
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Re: Some advice...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Man, take it easy.... You are 20 years old, and maybe you just started to like this girl? It normal to like someone, and the emotions/effects of liking someone are just like what u said u have... So you like this chick, BIG DEAL! You can do one of 2 things.... Either keep seeing her and see where things go, maybe a relationship?:rolleyes: Or you can cut off contact with this girl (If you think that u wont be able to "control" yourself eith your emotions/feelings for this girl) and see other women asap... The decision is yours.;)


Laterz...
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what he said... jeeze man stop calling her until next week
 
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Yeah.

I know it's normal to like somebody. We kissed yesterday for the first time but it was so weird I can't even explain it. I woke up today feeling so DOWN. That's why I made the post.

Thanks for the advice.
 
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