**** her like this http://youtu.be/KENsJoCy6Qk
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Can you elaborate on this?bukowski_merit said:in fact - if i were you - i'd do everything in my power to make HER make the move (via sexual tension building).
That was...twisted. No pun intended, actually.Scion said:**** her like this http://youtu.be/KENsJoCy6Qk
I disagree with this completely.... granted there will always be some AWing from chicks, but if a girl has interest in you and attraction and your bold, confident and bring up sex you have a good chance of getting laid.Nutz said:It's not hating, it's seeing the signs and knowing how women behave. They flirt like that and manipulate men for validation and attention and then when it's come to reciprocate they leave them hanging. Classic case of attention whor syndrome.
Ya...a girl that wants some attention from a AFC!The Mad Ghost said:Nope, it's certain. A girl doesn't come out of a 6 month relationship and start talking about what positions I like and that she is about to go put some porn on. We've been talking on Sex for the last 2 hours, but I can't help but have a distastful hatred for her mocking over the series of years.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol, I love that scene. Probably because it's so ridiculous that it's funny.Just a Shot Away said:That was...twisted. No pun intended, actually.
Was that some type of a sick joke? TeddyBear240. That's whats weird about people in this "DJ community", throwing around the word AFC at anything that moves, I even think the same people who use it so often have lost the actual definition and meaning of the damn acronym. Go look at at online dictionary for the definition of an AFC, come back sign in and say you're sorry and I may reconsider going in on you. Everybody else who commented here gave there opinion on my situation, but you, an ACTUAL Frustrated-Chump are throwing acronyms you misunderstand around.teddy240 said:Ya...a girl that wants some attention from a AFC!
If experience with this type of chick is any indication then probably not.r0cky said:So any developments?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scion said:**** her like this http://youtu.be/KENsJoCy6Qk
This is the demographic of So Suave nowadays? Loud-mouthed sorrority chicks/boys talking smack? If you read the entire thread, which you obviously didn't. You would know the reason why I'm DETERMINED to beat the rails off of this girl. Nothing desperate about wanting to have hate-sex with an annoying b1tch. I've actually known her a little over a year, 2 years was an error.J. Darko said:Let's see...Your title and the first few lines of your posts are screaming ''I'm desperate!'' and is the biggest turn off for women. Then you say that you know this girl for two years? Like, 2x365 days? Give up.
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Is this a troll thread?![]()