"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I cannot WAIT to beat the handles off of this chick!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bukowski_merit said:
in fact - if i were you - i'd do everything in my power to make HER make the move (via sexual tension building).
Can you elaborate on this?
 

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Nutz said:
It's not hating, it's seeing the signs and knowing how women behave. They flirt like that and manipulate men for validation and attention and then when it's come to reciprocate they leave them hanging. Classic case of attention whor syndrome.
I disagree with this completely.... granted there will always be some AWing from chicks, but if a girl has interest in you and attraction and your bold, confident and bring up sex you have a good chance of getting laid.





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The Mad Ghost said:
Nope, it's certain. A girl doesn't come out of a 6 month relationship and start talking about what positions I like and that she is about to go put some porn on. We've been talking on Sex for the last 2 hours, but I can't help but have a distastful hatred for her mocking over the series of years.
Ya...a girl that wants some attention from a AFC!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Shot Away said:
That was...twisted. No pun intended, actually.
Lol, I love that scene. Probably because it's so ridiculous that it's funny.
 

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teddy240 said:
Ya...a girl that wants some attention from a AFC!
Was that some type of a sick joke? TeddyBear240. That's whats weird about people in this "DJ community", throwing around the word AFC at anything that moves, I even think the same people who use it so often have lost the actual definition and meaning of the damn acronym. Go look at at online dictionary for the definition of an AFC, come back sign in and say you're sorry and I may reconsider going in on you. Everybody else who commented here gave there opinion on my situation, but you, an ACTUAL Frustrated-Chump are throwing acronyms you misunderstand around.
 

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r0cky said:
So any developments?
If experience with this type of chick is any indication then probably not.
 

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When is the last time you got some ass? You seem to be a little to excited here imo...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's see...Your title and the first few lines of your posts are screaming ''I'm desperate!'' and is the biggest turn off for women. Then you say that you know this girl for two years? Like, 2x365 days? Give up.


PS

Is this a troll thread? :eek:
 

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J. Darko said:
Let's see...Your title and the first few lines of your posts are screaming ''I'm desperate!'' and is the biggest turn off for women. Then you say that you know this girl for two years? Like, 2x365 days? Give up.


PS

Is this a troll thread? :eek:
This is the demographic of So Suave nowadays? Loud-mouthed sorrority chicks/boys talking smack? If you read the entire thread, which you obviously didn't. You would know the reason why I'm DETERMINED to beat the rails off of this girl. Nothing desperate about wanting to have hate-sex with an annoying b1tch. I've actually known her a little over a year, 2 years was an error.

Anyway. NO I DIDN'T PULL THE TRIGGER. Fpr everybody that was asking. Something came over me the weekend she came up and I didn't bother calling her atall, I knew she was down, but I forgot all about it. She also, didn't call me. Couldn't care less. I can go to her city and bang her anytime I want, it's not if. I know.

Turns out she came down and went shopping, and eventually went to the wedding. :cheer: Who cares? Yeah I know.
 
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