"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can be violent towards women..

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cola said:
I have a temper. It's not cool, it's not normal, it's not manly
But it's there. I have a really bad temper towards females. My mom abandoned me a bunch as a kid and left me with grandparents for months at a time whenever she had a new lover.
For this reason, I CAN NOT play these games with females.
If I find a female is ****ing with my emotions I know I'm capable of slapping her face off.
I know it's not cool and I ask you guys not to judge me just like I don't judge anyone else here.

I don't want to be like this but I am.
I haven't yet hit a woman but I have done things like slap drinks out of womans hand for perceived disrespect.. A busted a window for perceived disrespect and giys

I know if a woman was to come to my face after a LTR and tell me she cheated I'm capable of punching her like a man.
I thought about just dropping out of dating scene for this but obviously we all like Coochi right?
So what can I do?

Some of the I have read about you guys let females get away with **** like cheating or using you for a fool I just can't.. Its not safe for me it's not safe for her. It's just not safe to play around with me. Am I damaged permanently?
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I am extremely sorry you had to go through that when you a kid... Your mom sounds very heartless. Anyways, my mom was a little drunk and abuse towards my mom when I was little. That's why I dislike men from the subcontinent (my family is from there) but I don't dislike all men. Anyways, I do wish you get better. Don't let women step over you but try to control ur anger please because it's not good for u either.

Oh, and thank God, my dad is nice now... But I think u should ask God for help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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