"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I Called Her A Dog???

Disco

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I don't really like posting all of my interactions here, only the one's that I find amusing. Well last night I was working out and I see this cute girl, maybe a 7, doing last pull-downs and she's going patiently slow like your supossed to do. Well I look up and ask "how in the world do you have the patience to go that slow?" she replies, "because it beeps if you don't and I get tired of that." me: "oh, so it's conditioned learning?" her: "yeah, like a dog" in a very weird tone and walked away. strange girl, must have a weird outlook on herself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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white_hype

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its psychology stuff... pavlov's dog... dog learned that when "pavlov" came into the room it was meal time and would begin salivating... he conditioned the dog with a bell etc etc
 

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wow look at the big brain on you, your proud aren't you? seriously man, i know what the hell that is i'm well educated or i wouldn't have said that at all. my thing was she took it like i called her a dog.
 

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Don't be so defensive! White-Hype was just explaining the reference.

She didn't think you called her a dog, she was annoyed that you were interupting her workout, and made a rude comment.
 

duke007

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I called a girl a dog recently.

She had a pen between her teeth and then dropped it on the table, so I said she looks like a "Doggy with a bone."

She wasn't offended though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kineti[C]harm

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So? Insults kick ass :)

I called this really cute and hot HB9+ masculine. She refused to talk to me for like 30 mins until I said "Hey darling, I was just kidding you aint masculine" with a devious smile and lets just say that she didnt overlook me anymore :)

Fvck, if a girl cant take your words then she aint worth it. I even call good female friends or even girls ive just met at a party for bytches like "Ey bytches" or "Bytches and h0000es" scream that while dancing into a room :p Somehow girls dont react bad to it, some will sometime put on a shocked face :p


Sooo, calling a girl a dog = GOOD!

Ask her "If I pet you, will you lick me?"
 
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