"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I broke with my ex-gf, now, after 6 months of dating several girls, I want to go back

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All the Kings Horses and all the Kings men couldn't put humpty together again.

AKA

You can't unscamble an egg.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bluntmaster said:
Now if things go south with the new girl, you are going to be feeling even worse wanting your ex back more.

This could be a bad path you are on.
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This is true. It's a double edged sword. She'll take you mind of your ex, but if this new relationship goes sour, you could possibly be pining for you ex even more than before.



Truly getting over someone is like getting in shape. People try all sorts of shortcuts, but they rarely work. The best way to get in shape is to work hard, diet and remain focused on your goal and it takes time. The best way to get over someone is to face your emotions/demons, work on your own personal problems to become a better person, and take some time for yourself.

Although it looks like you've been apart for 6 months, so you should be over her by now.
 
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