“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I broke up with my GF

amoka

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Yup, I broke up with my girlfriend yesturday and she is begging me to take her back. The problem is she wants me to be with her and go wherever she goes most of the time and I do not have the time to do that with her. She is an attention whore. She said it she won't demand so much of my time anymore and that she is willing to change. I don't know whethere to take her back or not.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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unless you are playing games on this thread, you were always *****ing about her. stay the **** away or it will be the same **** again and again. she is begging you back because she didnt find anyone worthy enough on that dating site you hate she is on. dude read your posts and realize what a **** head you were dating. be confident that you did the right thing.
 

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drmeathead said:
unless you are playing games on this thread, you were always *****ing about her. stay the **** away or it will be the same **** again and again. she is begging you back because she didnt find anyone worthy enough on that dating site you hate she is on. dude read your posts and realize what a **** head you were dating. be confident that you did the right thing.
I appreciate your input but I have no idea, whatsover, what you're talking about. Which dating site are you refering too? Perhaps you've confused me with someone else.
 

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I do know girlfriends who have finally freaked out and changed after the guy dumped them. After getting back together, they do their best to accommodate you.

I would give her one last chance. Make it clear that you are going to see her 4 times a week at the most.
 

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my bad....you posted on that topic. i am in error.

my ex wanted all my time. i was on surgical rotation one day and didnt have time to answer her texts so that meant i was cheating. i was a jerk for coaching a little league baseball team and didnt take into consideration she wanted me to help her study for her exams. all kinds of stuff like that. of course she would change, she said. she did right up until things got a little be stressful in her life and the insecurites voices started sqwakin. insecure girls are like that due to developmental baggage...first boyfriends, daddy issues whatever. you cant fix em. i tried more than a man should. you can put sugar on **** but it still aint candy.
 

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It can happen like advice #4. It can also happen like advice #5.

Your call.
 
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