"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I broke my own rules

NewMan

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Yes I was lazy and had limited to no other options. Socially I was stunted and I took the very easy option - of great sex with someone I was familiar with, who enjoyed it as much, if not more than me, with a greater sex drive than me. Easy route, and I'm only finally able to get around fully after the surgery.

So my ego has taken a kick, and the great sex is the carrot that's been pulled away. For some reason I can't but help sit and re-evaluate the situation and suddenly consider MY options in all of this. Evaluating each and determining my course fo action.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chrispy

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Would you marry a person with drinking problems? I wouldn't. Unless she did AA.
 
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